I came to a tough decision this weekend: I have to give up LIW for a while.
I live with my FH, and we are both working full time and going to school at night, and we only see each other for about 2 hours a day. During that time, I'm either doing homework or schoolwork (I'm a teacher) because I spend so much of my free time during the day on LIW. If only I'd grade papers during my lunch hour, or spend 2 hours straight writing a grad school paper (instead of 4 hours in front of the computer, distracted by LIW half the time), this wouldn't be a problem. We joke about this site being an 'addiction' but it is - I literally can't stop browsing around on here and getting to work when I need to. FH and I hardly ever talk anymore, and because of our new schedules and workload, we're both stressed and crabby enough as it is. I thought being on LIW would be a good way to diffuse some of that stress, but I think it's just adding to it. My wedding is over a year away - the planning can wait another month or two.
So I'm saying bye for now. Grad school is over the last week in May; hopefully I'll have tons of extra time by then and will be back on LIW full force. I think it would be nice to keep in touch via e-mail actually (I'll need SOME girl talk!) so if anyone wants to FM me, I'd love that.
Thanks for listening. See you soon.
GinaBambina08
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Well, you gotta do what u gotta do! we'll miss you!
megzzie
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I totally understand your situation. Good luck with everything Dava and come back soon - we'll miss you!
soon2BMrsMcD
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ooooooooo Dava you will be MISSED!!! KIT and can't wait to see you again!! Hope it works out for the best babe!
Princess Cut Bride
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Awww....good luck with grad school Dava!!! The semester is almost over and there are only 2 more months left of work. We will miss you!!!
tara08
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we will definitely miss your presence on the boards but you have to do whats best for you!!!
Mrs. V 2008
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aw im sorry! good bye for now..hope to see you soon./.and whats sad is im starting to feel the same way..and may take a break myself..this site sometimes depresses me not helps me
jgl
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I completly understand!!!!!! but you will be missed very much!!!!
you go on LIW at work? im luckyh if i can get my clssroom computer to turn on hahah
madseason
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well miss you dava!!!!
angl2001
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good luck we will miss u!
graezie
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good luck with grad school and we will surely miss you...
SoontobeMrsH
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aww will miss you, but your doing the right thing
Snowflake08
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good luck dava! you'll do great and we'll miss you!!!
katleigh3
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WOW, Dava! You are a strong chick! Good for you! Talk about disipline!
You will be missed (as you can see) ...but the girls are right...we will be here if you need us!
Kimbalina
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Best wishes! I think you have gotten alot accomplished, and time with your FH is very important!
BunnyBears
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i am in grad school too- graduate next may - i know how it is!! been thinking of 'quitting' too. - i have just slowed down mostly... i think... well.. i just got on here as much as i used to myspace- so i just switched websites but same amount of time!!