I havent been on much lately

dazies1011 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:10 PM

I havent been on much lately

because I have been FREAKING OUT!!!!! Wish their was an icon with someone pulling their hair out.
FH lost his job again, it wasnt the greatest place to be at, he is a mechanic. The garage was little, old and with it not being heated and him working on the ground he got really sick. So the guy let him go... the week before Xmas.
So with all of this and him not working Im the only one putting money away for the wedding and it is STRESSING me out!!!!
I dont make alot being a pre-school teacher and being a single mom, no child support...paying my rent, bills and all other things it is tough to put anything aside for the wedding.
We are fighting ALOT and this is all making me thinking everything through.
I just dont know what to do anymore....

Vent over....Help me please

I hope this made some sense.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:12 PM

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Ive been in your situation before and I know how you feel! Hang in there and in the end, everything will work out trust me. Just do not get yourself down and try to keep positive, thats the only way FH and I got through it.

FutureMrsM Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:13 PM

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Aww, I'm so sorry to hear that! Hang in there, things will get better.

VickiR510 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:18 PM

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Sorry to hear about this. It will all work out. But yes its very stressful. Is there anything else FH can do for work right now?? Even if it wworking at an auto store until he finds something?

Im a Pepper Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:25 PM

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All I can say is I'm so sorry that you guys keep going through this hun! I know this must be stressful and I hope there are brighter days ahead for FH with finding a job. I know it's hard with money right now but everything will work itself out.

gina409 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:30 PM

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so sorry!!!!! hang i n there! hope it all works out for u

jenniferd Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:41 PM

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Wow, I'm so sorry to hear this. Things can only go up from here. Keep your head up and stay strong. You will get through this rough patch.

TaraVinny Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:45 PM

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hang in there. things will look up soon!!!

Jennmolloy Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:46 PM

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am sure that something better will come along for your family.

jeanettelovesjason Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:52 PM

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Im so sorry! I cant imagine how you must feel not only because we havent lost our jobs but because im not a single mom, but all i can say is hang in there and i hope everything gets better. It isnt fair that everything is on your shoulders right now But i pray that it gets better and I hope your FH finds a good new job soon!!

MrsKtoBe Posted: Dec 28, 2008 06:54 PM

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Im so sorry. I know this sounds stupid but maybe you guys should take a night just to reconnect. Beg one of your friends to babysit, make popcorn and watch a movie u both love and own (date cost: $2). thats what we do when we're just exhausted from fighting 100 battles together.

WishfulRinne Posted: Dec 28, 2008 07:01 PM

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I know exactly how you feel. FH owns his own business and things are not going well for him. I am thinking of catering on the weekends for extra cash. I am a 2nd grade teacher and my paycheck is just enough for my bills. Any extra income is good! HTH and I hope things get better!

GT143EA Posted: Dec 28, 2008 07:10 PM

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Awwww Chris! I'm so sorry! Hopefully your FH will be able to get another job soon.

Dani777 Posted: Dec 28, 2008 07:13 PM

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I am sooo sorry that you are going through this. Seems that we always fight with our other half when money is tight. What if you guys pushed the date back a year..? That way it would remove some stress ...? I hope everything works out.