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I havent worn my engagement ring in 2 days.

Original post by CubanBride

I am so angry and sad. I have finally had enough of the way FH speaks to me. It makes me feel like crap and I refuse to accept it anymore. I donn't know where he gets this crap from but the way he talks to me and his mother is totally unacceptable.

I don't know what to do. I have asked him to stop yelling and cursing at me in the past, but that hasn't worked. He seems to think it's no big deal. But its a big deal to me. This is the only problem I have with him. He is wonderful every other way, but I just cannot take this anymore.

There areonly 8 weeks left until our wedding and we have had a pretty easy time with it, but now I feel like throwing up.
brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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I am very glad to hear that!!!
David'sbride Posted:

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I'm glad there is good news. I was very worried.


Just one other piece of unsolicited advice...

'Actions speak louder than words' and what helped me get out of an abusive relationship and wake up and smell the coffee was...

'Don't tell me, show me'. Meaning I am sick and tired of people saying they are sorry, etc. and then there is no change in their behavior. Just make sure his actions are consistant with what he says.

If you need us we are here.
Danielle Posted:

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Good for you!!!

May05Bride Posted:

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Its nice to hear he listened and is willing to see your side.
nylibride Posted:

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Posted by David'sbride

'Don't tell me, show me'. Meaning I am sick and tired of people saying they are sorry, etc. and then there is no change in their behavior. Just make sure his actions are consistant with what he says.

If you need us we are here.



I agree. Best of luck with everything. I really hope this works out for you!
Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted:

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I hope everything works out for you.

I am glad to hear he was receptive to your talk!

allaboutthecake Posted:

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I'm glad everything is working out.
germai68 Posted:

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I am so happy to hear this.

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