I knew the relationship was over when...

BKtoLI Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:15 PM

I knew the relationship was over when...

In honor of our current FH's, we should pay homage to some of the people we have dated in the past who are not so lucky as to be standing where our FHs are now. So with this in mind, please finish this statement....

I knew the relationship was over when........

MrsStefan Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:25 PM

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He called and used a lame a$$ excuse of 'I need some space' and then disappeared for a month. Hey, it only took him 2 1/2 years to realize he needed space..jacka$$..IM BETTER OFF!!!

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:29 PM

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My ex before Joe was gary. I knew it was over when he refused to ever go the beach so I choose to go with my best friend Wes WHO IS GAY! I knew Wes for three yrs before I ever met gary, I took him to my prom, and gary had the nerve I wasn't allowed to see him again especially at the beach because he didn't trust me! The jerk was cheating, but he refused to EVER kiss, even when we were making love! I knew we were over.

SweetCin704 Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:30 PM

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I called his summer/weekend home (b/c he had 'things' to take care of) and a woman answered!!!!!!

Another one: we were on a cruise & after a fight he told me he was going to smoke a cigar. Three hours later, still not back, I walked to the disco & saw him necking w/ a girl on the dance floor.

Yet another (a first date): We went to dinner to a restaurant he suggested in Manhattan, when the bill came, he split it according to what I ate. He had wanted me to try oysters (which I really dislike) & he even charged me for the 1 oyster I tried.

psf80 Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:36 PM

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He completely stopped talking to me.

BKtoLI Posted: Oct 09, 2005 11:40 PM

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ok in all fairness I'll post mine because I have a few doozys....

1. (2002) When he showed up drunk at my house at 5am and then woke up at 8am to take a leak in my backyard!!! (Yes this was the same ex who started the fight with me at the dais of my cousin's wedding)

2. (1992) When he told me he cheated on me with 5 girls in one weekend, but he wanted to stay together.

3. (1994) When he was flirting with my friend right in front of me on Valentine's Day.

4. (1996) When he told me that when we get married and get a house that his mother would live with us.

5. (1993) When he constantly accused me of cheating on him even though I wasn't. His best friend was one of my managers and was putting ideas in his head. I told him if he kept accusing me of it, I may as well cheat on him since I was already guilty of it in his eyes.

October Bliss Posted: Oct 10, 2005 12:11 AM

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How's this for a doozy . . . I knew the realtionship was over when he told me he was getting married - and I wasn't the bride. I didn't even suspect he was seeing someone else.

Hamptonsbride06 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 12:15 AM

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i knew it was over when he told me he was seeing someone else..but not to feel too bad..because 'well hunny atleast im not seeing another woman, George makes me feel so safe'

yea top that ladies! i was with him for 4 years before he figured out that he was gay...atleast i didnt marry him

dbleplay17 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 12:22 AM

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one bf
I was at a party with him and went to get more beer and found him in a hot tub with a bunch of 1/2 naked girls...

another bf
when in HS he always broke up with me when he went to FL with the baseball team and then when he came back we were back together

then another one
when i cheated on him

MAN I AM SOOOOO GLAD I FOUND MY FH! There are alot of A-holes out there
(then again in the last one i was the a-hole)

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 12:49 AM

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Different guys:

He cheated on me. With a married woman- 2003

When I had surgery and he wouldn't call me. I had to dump him while I was still on anesthesia. - 2002.

Found out he was an ''occassional'' coke user -2001

When he hooked up with my 'friend' on my 21st birthday - 2000.

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 10, 2005 01:08 AM

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Posted by princessofci

i knew it was over when he told me he was seeing someone else..but not to feel too bad..because 'well hunny atleast im not seeing another woman, George makes me feel so safe'

yea top that ladies! i was with him for 4 years before he figured out that he was gay...atleast i didnt marry him

I caught my first boyfriend in bed with another man. I so can relate, then his mother blamed me for making her son gay, I told her it was properly her genes!

Goldi1021 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 07:54 AM

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I knew the relationship was over when...

...he couldn't cut the cord from his mommy and daddy. They were his best friends. Awwww. PUKE!

tracy2246 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 08:22 AM

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when I saw him all over another girl at a club ...and then he tried to play it off like she was just a friend..right

cantwait2bewed Posted: Oct 10, 2005 09:23 AM

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1- when he had a big hickey on his neck and tried to give a lame excuse about it.

2- when he and my now ex best friend got together went behind my back on 3 way calls so my ex boyfriend can find things out about me that only she knew.

FH is the best. He would never cheat on me or go behind my back and do anything to me. he has so much respect.

Faith Posted: Oct 10, 2005 09:33 AM

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When went out to run errands one day, forgot my cell phone and came home to fourteen messages about how I was out screwing some other guy. That was my first 'hint'

SIBride06 Posted: Oct 10, 2005 09:50 AM

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Posted by SexyEsq

How's this for a doozy . . . I knew the realtionship was over when he told me he was getting married - and I wasn't the bride. I didn't even suspect he was seeing someone else.

Ouch

FormerlyKnownAsQ Posted: Oct 10, 2005 09:50 AM

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I knew the relationship was over when........

he cheated on me

kellwolfe Posted: Oct 10, 2005 09:56 AM

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I lied and said that i didnt feel well so I could go out on a date with someone else ......and didnt feel bad about it at all .....

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Oct 10, 2005 10:01 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I knew the relationship was over when...

...he couldn't cut the cord from his mommy and daddy. They were his best friends. Awwww. PUKE!

I can relate to that one -
Except for him it was just daddy. He did everything his father told him to and his father was a complete a**hol*