I knew the relationship was over when...

I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN:

....he spent more time with his friend at the jr. prom than he did with me.....and then began secretly dating him.

I WIN.

...I realized that I loved him and he didn't love me.

The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is just to love, and to be loved in return.' Words to live by, and a lesson that must be learned in the duration of the film Moulin Rouge .

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Posted by Shorty McBride

I KNEW IT WAS OVER WHEN:

....he spent more time with his friend at the jr. prom than he did with me.....and then began secretly dating him.

I WIN.

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You got my Vote here...

high school boyfriend-
i went away to a school where the guy/girl ratio was 15/1 and told everyone that i didnt have a boyfriend....


college bf-
he told me that 'i needed to be single and i needed to have fun' well, he turned out to be right

I can relate..

I new it was over when I realized I loved him and he didn't love me.

i knew the relationship was over when.....

i was on the phone with him and he was telling me about him going out with his friends the night before just to look at a meteor shower or something like that. and a specific girl was there too. He had cheated on me a billion times and i took him back but something hit me like a ton of bricks. after he told me not to worry and nothing happend because he was trying to win my trust back. i said. ' um im done with this shiat' im done with you! then i hung up.
He wasnt expecting that he kept saying 'nothing happend' and by that point in our relationship i had no trust in him. and even if he really didnt do anything that night. i would never believe him again. thank god i did this.

about 3 months after this break up and seeing only a few guys i found my FH!!!

My ex after a year and a half after our break up and he was seeing someone else he wrote me a note and mailed it to me asking if we could get back together and he loved me and missed me and realized he couldnt live with out me. i cried a bit then i ripped up the letter and told my fh. i felt a bit of closure from that a hole. He was seeing someone else at this time and i think he is still with her i dont know i feel bad for anyone who gets involved with this jerk!

in high school my ex told me he was bowling with his best friend.

So I called his best friend and said what did you do tonight? He said we played pool!

Yep he was cheating..

the guy I almost married- when I was very young and very stupid- and 22

when I realized that he would never stop gambling, and we would never have any money and would live in our 1 bedroom apartment for ever b/c he was such a loser- that if he lost money gambling instead of saying ok I am done- he would keep going

He said he had stopped and I found a little pc of paper with the lines and teams on it in his pocket
and found out he lost $5K- in one week!!!!

I was going to school in the city and bartending making about $500 in cash a week and I had to charge a train ticket to the city on the credit card b/c he took all my money to pay a loan shark!

and then I left- it was the best thing I ever did
my life would have been alwful, he was never going to change!

Jake doesn't gamble or even watch sports on TV!

he had a girlfriend who had just given birth to his twins! (we were married at this point)

when I met my FH!

I knew it was over when.........

I found out he was someone else's FH

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Posted by mclane

when I met my FH!

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me too!! i dumped him as soon as i met my FH..and i heard he was flirting with all my friends in college...thanks goodness i got out!!

1. I first started clubbing at 16; 2. when he made me pay for my own train ride...and for his as well...3. I met my FH again...I kicked them all to the curb

I knew the relationship was over when.....

I caught him with another woman two weeks before the wedding!!!

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Posted by leighdvm

I knew the relationship was over when.....

I caught him with another woman two weeks before the wedding!!!

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NO WAY?!!!! Oh my Gosh!!!!!!