OK, im trying to decide who to have walk me down the aisle...
my father passed away when i was 10... here are my 2 choice:
1. Mom's ex-boyfriend... i know this sounds funny, but he really is like my step dad. He has been around since I was in the 7th grade and him and my mom broke up when i was in college... he still stayed in my and my brothers life and I call him my pseudo-step dad. he loves my brother and i like his own children and him and my mom are still close friends... i even lived with him for a while when i was working in NYC...FI and i meet him for dinner all the time and he really is like a dad to me...
2. my uncle... this is my moms brother, who also happens to be my godfather. My uncle took this job very seriously and has always looked out for my little brother and I. He lives in fla and that is where I choose to go to college. He was always there to pick me up from school when i needed a ride and bring me to the airport... he is a great great special uncle who i love dearly (his 4 children -- my cousins--are going to be my flower girls! )he even recently offered to pay for one of the vendors at my wedding because he knows my mom isnt helping with anything...
So i am stuck!! Please help... mom thinks i should ask my pseudo step dad... my brother and FI are thinking i should ask my uncle... can i ask both?? is that wierd?? would that leave my mom sleighted??? I DONT Want to walk down the aisel with my mom or brother...
please help!!
cindyandkevin
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Since they're both major people in your life I would have them both walk you down. I think they should each understand that the other is important to you and not be offended. Besides, you could say how it takes 2 men to stand in place of your dad. It's a very big responsibility and I think they would both be honored to walk you down.
cjb88
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thanks for all of your responses ladie!!! im thinking of a way to include both of them... i think i just have to think about it some more... such a hard decision!!
i defiantley DONT want my mom to give me away... i have some pent up issues with her and i know she'll already be annoying enough the day off...
ill let you know what I decide when I make my decision!!
