.. . how far in advance do people (or BPs) usually start to put showers together? The wedding is Feb 18th. My MOH's know I have a list of names and addresses when they are ready for it. However they have yet to ask me for it. I know reservations need to be made because nobody has a home big enough for a shwoer. I know they (the BP)are busy people. But they know there are a few issues in regard to scheduling in order to include the entire BP. FH doesn't know where my list is saved on my computer. He has no way of accessing it without me knowing so it isnt like he can help them behind my back. Am I being weird about this?
I would just give it to them & say you had to make a few changes because a few people changed their address... What do you have to loose??
I gave this some more thought and came to the conclusion that if by the end of Yom Kippur (when I shouldn't be wedding planning anyway) that if I haven't given a list to anyone, I'm going to let FH take care of it. I'll give HIM my list and have HIM plant the seeds. We are BOTH friends with everyone in the BP. I have enough issues!
