My sister is gettting married and were talking about what if while you were at your reception hall, or anywhere else, if you would get mad if you saw another bride.
My sister said she would be pretty upset because her RH promised her that they do meitculous scheduling to ensure this doesn't happen.
Personally, I wouldn't care at all. The Swan Club has 3 rooms fairly close together and I am sure that while I am doing my things I will see people from the other 2 events. And while taking photos there I may see the other brides. I would probably wave to them and say 'congratulations' or something, but I wouldn't get mad.
How would you react?
RitasEngaged
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well you have to expect it if you book a hall that does more than one wedding at a time
little j
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i think its all about expectations. my RH is 1 event at a time, so i dont plan on seeing another bride. However, the church schedules couples pretty tightly, so i expect to either see a bride or a bunch of parishioners around. whatever.
Its2Snappy
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I don't think I would be mad. I would say 'Congrats' and be happy for the other bride.
jayepyt
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idk i think i would be a little upset but i dont think its that much of a deal
lori7570
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Crest Hollow has up to 3 weddings at a time, and I know there is at least one another wedding set so far...honestly I would just say hi and congrats!!
I would only mind if the area around my room was congested becasue of other guests...but they say they stagger the events so I'm assuming this won't happen
MrsC2010
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i wouldnt like it....thats why we only looked at places with 1 event at a time
Lsorrent
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Well my church ceremony is at 3pm, so there very well be another bride there in the morning, but chances are we won't run into each other. If we do, I'll say congrats and leave it be.
If I see another at my RH that night, we'll certainly have a problem, since my RH only does 1 event at a time and that would mean they've double booked!
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To be quite honest, I would tell them congrats. Why should I be mad? At least someone is as happy as I will be.
LaurenJosh
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It wouldn't bother me- its not like she'll be coming into our room and hanging out.
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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72
To be quite honest, I would tell them congrats. Why should I be mad? At least someone is as happy as I will be.
ita!
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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72
To be quite honest, I would tell them congrats. Why should I be mad? At least someone is as happy as I will be.
ita!
Me too! We only looked at places that did one wedding at a time because we wanted to make sure our guests had lots of personal attention, but it didn't really matter to me if I saw another bride. There will probably be an afternoon wedding at my RH, which means there will be some overlap. It happens.
T E R I
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I wouldn't be mad at all, I didn't book a hall that does one wedding at a time-so i really can't be mad
soontobecruz
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I would congratulate them too and move on it wouldn't bother me at all
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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72
To be quite honest, I would tell them congrats. Why should I be mad? At least someone is as happy as I will be.
That's the way I was thinking about it. but my sis seemed to have a 'It's MY DAY' thing about it all. I don't know, I thought maybe I was the weird one for thinking it was no big deal.
futureMrsJSL
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I wouldn't get mad. I'd probably want to go say hi.
Sandradv121
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I'd slap her High five and ask her what the hell are we doing lol!
MrsC2010
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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72
To be quite honest, I would tell them congrats. Why should I be mad? At least someone is as happy as I will be.
That's the way I was thinking about it. but my sis seemed to have a 'It's MY DAY' thing about it all. I don't know, I thought maybe I was the weird one for thinking it was no big deal.
i said i wouldn't like it....but i wouldnt be MAD....i would just feel a little upset like this is supposed to be my day and seeing her might make me feel like i am having to share it with someone...i dunno just my opinion
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I don't think i would care. I'd say congrats and go about my day.
Probably won't happen though cuz i have the whole building to myself lol.
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i wouldnt like it....thats why we only looked at places with 1 event at a time
