I'm done

MrsGarcia Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:25 PM

I'm done

I think I am calling off the wedding.

I'm sick and tired of everything at this point. I call FH to tell him what we have remaining on the hall and hes like 'Thats eff'n nuts.. This is such a waste'.. I have done so much with this wedding stuff and he has done next to nothing. I think I'm just completely done with the wedding and him.

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Jennmolloy Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:27 PM

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Awww hang in there. It will get better.

Wedding planning is so stressful for all of us. It will all be worth it in the end.

MrsGRod09 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:29 PM

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Don't call off your wedding you'll lose your deposit . Don't worry alot of them say that, my FH hates the fact that we are having a wedding. He just wants to elope. Don't listen to him and keep with your planning . I now no longer tell my FH anything important regarding the wedding because i know a fight will happen or he'll say something upsetting.

VeggieBride Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:29 PM

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oh no im so sorry

evewedsjc Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:29 PM

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we have all been through it at one point...

MrsCastanedain09 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:30 PM

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Posted by GRod2Be

Don't call off your wedding you'll lose your deposit . Don't worry alot of them say that, my FH hates the fact that we are having a wedding. He just wants to elope. Don't listen to him and keep with your planning . I now no longer tell my FH anything important regarding the wedding because i know a fight will happen or he'll say something upsetting.

ITA! My FMIL told me NOT to tell her son every little detail and expense. She said, 'he has no appreciation for these things until he see's it excecuted, don't let him ruin this.'

Hang in there

MrsGarcia Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:34 PM

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Hes acting so immature.. I had to take 2 of my Zanax to calm my tushy down.. ..

I texted him that I'm done with his non-sense because I have been footing up pretty much all the money because he can't save for his life. And he just doesn't care. It upsets me that hes being such a a-hole and calling the wedding a waste!!!.. I told him I''m the one losing my deposits and hes like :Whatever'.... Whatever!!!!! UGH

littlepixie12 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:41 PM

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maybe he is just stressed

MrsGRod09 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:44 PM

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Posted by MrsGarcia

Hes acting so immature.. I had to take 2 of my Zanax to calm my tushy down.. ..

I texted him that I'm done with his non-sense because I have been footing up pretty much all the money because he can't save for his life. And he just doesn't care. It upsets me that hes being such a a-hole and calling the wedding a waste!!!.. I told him I''m the one losing my deposits and hes like :Whatever'.... Whatever!!!!! UGH

I wouldn't say anything to him anymore..keep what you say very limited. Trust me i have one of those at home who doesn't really care about those things. Try to hang in there

bobchris1023 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:48 PM

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I'm sure things will get better!!! Good Luck, hang in there :)

AlisonMZ14 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:49 PM

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don't do anything rash!! remember why you got engaged in the first place weddings arent suppose to be so stressful!

flairforfashion Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:50 PM

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Posted by AlisonMZ14

don't do anything rash!! remember why you got engaged in the first place weddings arent suppose to be so stressful!

ITA! When FH and I started planning- HOLY CRAP!!!! We fought and fought. Now that the wedding is closer, we haven't had a fight now for about 6 months and we are just focusing on eachother and why we are engaged and getting married. It will be worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!

MrsGarcia Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:53 PM

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I hate him right now and told him to get out of my house because hes acting like a 2 year old.. Sorry I'm giving so much info.. I'm at work and about to have a melt down because he has to be this way.. Its bad enough everything else going on within my house.. Now he has to add to it.

gina409 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:58 PM

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i think u have 2 choices..continue what u r doing and just dont tell him or 2 call if off and forget all the love u guys have,all the hard work u put in and just the fact that men r morons sometimes..we all know weddings can stress everyone ut big time ..try to hang in there..im syre everything will work out

krislee316 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 02:59 PM

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awwwww I am so sorry try and relax and have a talk later when you are more calm. Some times we say things out of anger so its best to wait till you are more calm.

JennyAPH Posted: Feb 24, 2009 03:01 PM

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Posted by flairforfashion

Posted by AlisonMZ14

don't do anything rash!! remember why you got engaged in the first place weddings arent suppose to be so stressful!

ITA! When FH and I started planning- HOLY CRAP!!!! We fought and fought. Now that the wedding is closer, we haven't had a fight now for about 6 months and we are just focusing on eachother and why we are engaged and getting married. It will be worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree.. FH and I fought alot about money and wedding related things at first..that all cooled down now... we are both really excited for the wedding, but most importantly the marriage. Hang in there it will get better..

MrsGarcia Posted: Feb 24, 2009 03:04 PM

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I feel like I've been running into this wall many times since this planning started... I just don't if I feel like knocking myself out anymore

nicopico13 Posted: Feb 24, 2009 03:05 PM

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Just breathe....its so common for the men to be less then interested. I hope it gets better, I'm sure it will. Hang in there, maybe tell him (when you're calm) that saying things like that are hurtful. Sometimes I don't think they realize just how long us girls have been dreaming of this day!!