As for the BM, I dont necessarily think she is a bad friend. You said yourself that you dont think that your sister or mother knew it was her b-day that weekend. Think about how she must feel if they didnt even ask if that was a good weekend. I would be pissed it if was my 30th b-day and I couldnt even be at home with my friends and family!
Marisa M
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Re: I'm so upset.......
Posted by Anti-Bride
as for the suprise all might not be ruined yet...it could still be moved or on a different day
but we all as brides have to put ourselves in others people shoes as wedding time nears....yes we all joke that people are crazy or insensitive but im sure that on a big a day as shes having (30 is a huge b-day) shes hurt that not only is her party being taken away from but also that as a bm , now she has to choose between herself and her duties to you
take a step back and re-evaluate why shes doing this
I disagree - So what ? She's turning 30 that weekend ? Like you're going to ignore her birthday and not celebrate it at all ? I realize it's a big one, but come ON ! She's not a 5 year old child !! It's a birthday.......Celebrate it the weekend after the shower. - I think you have every right to be upset. She was being spiteful. Don't let it consume you though.......and you're right DON'T tell you mom and sis you know.........the surprise is already ruined for you - don't ruin it for them ......But you WILL have a great time regardless........
