In laws... UPDATE at bottom

Original post by Scarpak

Oct 08, 2009 11:40 AM

Does anyone else ever think that there should be a board dedicated to our DARLING in laws... Mine are awful. FFIL passed away on the 1st, and the viewing was tuesday night. NONE of his children (including FH) had spoken to him in years, and we all went more out of respect for FMIL. So FSIL's friend comes, and she introduces everyone (this is my nephew john, my brother frank) she introduces me by saying, 'thats Kat, she doesnt matter' and walking away. Also, not ONE person from FH's family called to wish our daughter a happy birthday, and when he called them on it, the SAME sister said well if you would bring her here for christmas and thanksgving we would call.
im ready to rip my hair out. They have been nothing but trouble from day one.

UPDATE

So today was the big meeting (which I was not allowed to attend) and it did not go well AT ALL. FSIL is off her rocker. First she called me a b!tch-wh*re, then she said she didnt want to have to talk to me. and when FH said then fine act like a child and dont talk to her, she said i want you to put it in writing that when i see your daughter i dont have to talk to kat. So after this meeting DARLING fh decides he is going to invite her to breakfast with us, and she ignores me the WHOLE time. she barely even said three words to my daughter. I wanna write her off, i dk what to do

Iluvpoodles Posted: Oct 13, 2009 12:22 PM

Re: In laws... UPDATE

Toxic people..plain and simple. You should cut them out completely, that means functions they invite you to, don't attend, plans came up, when you are forced to see them, ignore her. Really, just think how they are treating your daughter. She should not be around people like that. For that matter alone, it should be like she don't exist. Also, from personal experience, you don't want people who show no interest in your daughter or don't treat her good around her. When she gets older, she'll know the deal. You sit down, discuss this with your husband. If the behavior towards you don't change, then there is no need for you to have any communication with them. It is their loss that they don't want to know your daughter..

Scarpak Posted: Oct 13, 2009 02:12 PM

Re: In laws... UPDATE

Thats what im thinking, I could almost understand if his sister treated my daughter differently and wasn't related to her. but she is me and FH's child. not that it would be okay, but at least i could understand more. but hopefully he takes care of this tomorrow, because as far as i am concerned, she is dead to me