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Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
LoveyDovey
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:11 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:11 PM
Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
as some of you girls may know, my RH search has been endless and frustrating...we saw Oheka castle on platinum weddings last night...and I asked FH if we were to wait another year to get married, could we do it there...
FH said ok, yeah, sure! 2 minutes later.... he says, 'just kidding'
so do any of you know just how expensive it is??!!
someone told me there is a 10k site fee??!!
Jna2010
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:13 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:13 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
depending on the time of year and day i believe it can get up to 400 pp.... and yes there is a ridiculous site fee i think it is 10k
HSsweethearts
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:17 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:17 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
I thinkt he site fee is around $10K and the pp price starts at $200+++ETA: Just get married. Use the money you save in the extra year for a house.
Soon2BRomeo
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:19 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:19 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
I was quoted 4000 site fee and 170pp you need to book on the date that they are tring to get rid of. we Went in the end of October 2009 looking for the fall of 2010.
Joe and Erica
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:25 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:25 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
The site fee varies and so will the pp. You really should go in and speak to any of the BM's that will meet with you. They can work things out if its within reason. We had a great experience and they were almost cutting the site fee in half when I went because of the date, our guarantee min...So- What do you loose in trying!
Good Luck!
pjankowski
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:30 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:30 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
I was told the site fee was 20,000.
july2011bride
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:31 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 09:31 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
I think maybe it depends on the time of year. I wanted a summer wedding and Oheka was just out of budget for me.
Muimui
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:46 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 10:46 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
sent you FM:)
angelscri
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:09 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:09 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
My brides book said that the site fee is $12,000
Chelechel1
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:16 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:16 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
There are other mansions that are used for weddings that are really beautiful. Try Lessings Waterfront Mansions.Good Luck!
LoveyDovey
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:20 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:20 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
sighhhi feel like im never going to like anything we can afford!!!
anyone know anything about vanderbilt mansion or bourne mansion? price-wise? seen photos of it, looks beautiful and expensive!
Chelechel1
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:22 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:22 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
Posted by LoveyDovey
sighhh
i feel like im never going to like anything we can afford!!!
anyone know anything about vanderbilt mansion or bourne mansion? price-wise? seen photos of it, looks beautiful and expensive!
Yes I'm getting married at Vanderbilt I will FM you
Chelechel1
Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:29 PM+

Posted: Jan 20, 2010 11:29 PM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
FM sent
monamiestephanie
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:45 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:45 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
The site fee and pp cost does vary depending on both the season (peak vs off-peak) and the day of the week (Sat, Sun, Mon-Wed, Thur or Fri).When my FH and I initially visited Oheka, we were handed a sheet with the following quotes below. Here's what I remembered:
*Sat - Peak: $320pp + $13,000 site fee
*Sun - Peak: $280pp + 10,000 site fee (I think?)
*Mon-Wed - Peak: $230pp + $8,000 site fee
However, we were told to let them know dates we were interested in, and received an email that evening on much lower rates. Both the site fee and pp cost are lower.
The rates aren't as bad as they seem, especially if you're willing to get married on a day other than Sat.
For example, July 4th happens to land on a Monday next year, and they charge Mon rates, not Sun rates, as I experienced with other RHs.
Additionally, their rate is really all-inclusive! They don't nickle and dime, and their rate includes the best cocktail hour stations, i.e. raw bar with oysters, caviar and vodka, etc.
Bee12
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:53 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:53 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
what is the min there?i think i would do the elopement package for $4k just for me and the FH in order to get married there... lol
Oheka C. is gorgeous!!!!!!!!! congrats to the Oheka brides
monamiestephanie
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:55 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 07:55 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
From what I remember, the Sat min is 200 people, and the Mon-Wed is 150.
Bee12
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 08:03 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 08:03 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
Posted by monamiestephanie
From what I remember, the Sat min is 200 people, and the Mon-Wed is 150.
not bad @ all... relatively close to other LI RH's .. with exception to the site fee. CONGRATS GIRL !!!
Notwedyet08
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 09:44 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 09:44 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
I was watching that episode of platinum weddings too!!On the episode i think they said the site fee was between $12-$14K. I know they had a lavish wedding; but when i calculated their total reception costs they mentioned for the 300 guests; it came out to around $350'ish per person I think their cocktail hour food was seperate-maybe because of the special items they brought in??
AdriandSteve
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 09:50 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 09:50 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
Posted by HSsweethearts
I thinkt he site fee is around $10K and the pp price starts at $200+++
ETA: Just get married. Use the money you save in the extra year for a house.
i kinda agree. What type of hall do you want and where have you looked so far?
Iluvpoodles
Posted: Jan 21, 2010 10:04 AM+

Posted: Jan 21, 2010 10:04 AM
Re: Is Oheka realllly that expensive??
Posted by AdriandSteve
Posted by HSsweethearts
I thinkt he site fee is around $10K and the pp price starts at $200+++
ETA: Just get married. Use the money you save in the extra year for a house.
i kinda agree. What type of hall do you want and where have you looked so far?
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