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Is she for real. now that I am hysterical crying. ....Well everyone now the 'summer dog' has a pumkin shirt and a pilgrim hat on...

Original post by june262004

We moved in upstairs from my cousins. They turned into the cousin from hell they act like 5 year olds. Im ready to move tomorrow. She sent me this email. We bought 70.00 worth of decorations yesterday. My husband took everything down like she asked and also took everything they had that the used like his tools from the shed our lawn chairs. He is going to take our lawn mower that they use and put it at my moms house. Im so upset. My husband is pissed.

Heres the email.. i can't believe this.

I was hoping to have heard from you by now but I guess you were busy or
maybe still asleep. Anyway I have to get this out, I was up all night
thinking about it.
When Dan and I looked at the house we had to decide whether we were going
to take the upstairs, or pay more and take the downstairs. The main reason
that we chose the downstairs was that for the first time in 6 years I would
have a front yard and garden that I could finally take care of and decorate
on my own. You have seen the hours, more like days, I have put into making
the outside of the house look just right.You guys stood there and watched
me pull all of those weeds out of the front, plant all the flowers just so,
and I have bought all kinds of lawn and garden things to decorate it. To
come home yesterday and see that you guys had completely taken over and
decorated for Halloween really upset me. I couldn't believe that you did
that. I know that it sucks to be the ones not living in the main part of
the house, I did it for 6 years, but it's just how it is. You guys live
upstairs and we live downstairs. Whatever you want to do upstairs do, but
the downstairs and the front of the house is something that I have taken a
lot of pride in and was just getting to the point where I was really happy
with the way it looked. Halloween is over 5 weeks away, I haven't even had
a chance to change my spring/summer stuff over to fall. I have a lot of
just fall stuff to put out before any Halloween stuff. It's just way to
early to have that stuff up yet. If you guys want to be involved when we
decorate in like 3 weeks you are more than welcome but to completely
disregard all of my hard work is just not OK. You didn't even ask me what I
was doing for the holidays. It was really unfair of you to do that. Please
take the Halloween stuff down today and I will let you know when I am going
to decorate and we can all do it together if you want to. I'm sorry if your
mad at me about this, I really wish you didn't put me in the position to
have to talk to you about it. I have waited to long to have a 1st floor of
a house and it's not right that you took it away from me.

I'll be around tonight or you can call me at work and we can talk about it.
I don't want to cause any trouble but I needed you to know and understand
how I felt.
I love ya Kris, I'm not mad just upset.




palebride Posted:

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i LOVE the vacuuming idea!!!
june262004 Posted:

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My friend came over wearing cowboy boots and stomped up the steps. then she came up here and put on the heavy metal station in the 800's on tv and turned up the tv. Then she turned on the country channel and she decided to line dance in the kitchen.

exotica776 Posted:

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Posted by lvdolphins

I am speechless.
She sounds like a b*tch. Dont let hubby mow the lawn anymore! Like other posters had said, decorate for thanksgiving and christmas NOW! You dont pay HER rent, who is she to tell you how to decorate!!!
Some nerve!




i have to agree... this is crazy.... i think her email was 'nice' as far as not wanting to 'start anything with you' but i think she was a child in writing it instead of saying it to your face. I also dont like how she said i knew you'd understand.... *** is that about....she knew you'd 'listen' to her?????!!!!! I would have the landlord write something up sayiing who has rights to what part of the house, give her a copy and you keep a copy. this will nip this in the bud.... and any further annoying antics on her part! you pay to live in a house with a yard, you have the right to decorate it!
june262004 Posted:

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DH has work till midnight. He just wrote me a text and said don't be mad i called her... Im not mad at all. She just called up here. i don't want to talk to her I turned off all the lights and im pretending like im in bed sleeping LOL... Now Im acting like the 5 year old LOL... My DH said what to hear what she said. I can't wait.
holly231 Posted:

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KRISTIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Your Hubby is making you wait till he gets home to tell u??? How annoying is that for u!>?!

for yuou...you have had a rough month!!!!!!!!!
don424 Posted:

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Posted by june262004




DH has work till midnight. He just wrote me a text and said don't be mad i called her... Im not mad at all. She just called up here. i don't want to talk to her I turned off all the lights and im pretending like im in bed sleeping LOL... Now Im acting like the 5 year old LOL... My DH said what to hear what she said. I can't wait.



looking forward to the update tomorrow
june262004 Posted:

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Posted by holly231

KRISTIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Your Hubby is making you wait till he gets home to tell u??? How annoying is that for u!>?!

for yuou...you have had a rough month!!!!!!!!!



Holly as if all this wasn't bad enough I got served court papers today that say I have to be in Florida to testify for my brother on monday morning. His wife went today and filled charges again now they said that he was abusing her daughter. i am sick all day over both of these things.
june262004 Posted:

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i really think im going to throw up right now.
holly231 Posted:

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Holy Cow Kristin!

My heart goes out to you!! YOu are strong and will be fine, its just annoying tha @ssholes such as your brothers wife are hurting helpless people....my thougyhts and prayers are with you!!!!!!!!!
Jax430 Posted:

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Kristin, what a lousy couple of weeks you're having! Your cousin should have spoken to you in person. The two of you should be able to decorate for Halloween together. I have a feeling she was trying to let you know how she felt, not upset you, but a lot gets lost in e-mails. From the other stuff you have mentioned, she sounds like a difficult person to live with. Remember that it's only temporary.
june262004 Posted:

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Thank you holly.

And thank you everyone. I really appreciate it.
june262004 Posted:

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I really think she dislikes me actually no it's more like she is only worried about herself.


Here are some of the posts that I have posted about her in the past.

http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=145155


http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=143549


http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=136575


http://www.liweddings.com/chat/topic.aspx?ID=129686

Let me also state that at my wedding her husband called my uncle (his uncle through marriage) A$$hole really loud. Cause my uncle said 'what you can't say hi'
june262004 Posted:

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O yeah and one more thing.. why in the world yesterday when she saw me after I did it did she say 'It looks cute i have a lot more to add' She came out and said that too. Its not like I said what do u think she just came out and said it. I think im going to cry again. GRRRR

Jax430 Posted:

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She isn't worth so many tears
Xelindrya Posted:

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Posted by don424


Posted by palebride

i would go out and buy more decorations.....and cover the lawn with them - just to spite her!
and then, the day after halloween, i would buy thanksgiving decorations and decorate immediately....and then the day after thanksgiving - go for christmas!!!

if she's going to be petty and immature about it - i'd say give it right back to her!

and if she complains, tell her that you BOTH rent, therefore, she has no right to tell you where you can or can't decorate!!



screw halloween and decorate the front of the house with christmas stuff



Nah.. I say we have a LIW T-P party
june262004 Posted:

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Ok its late and im tired. So i will make a long story short.My dh called her and said How upset i was today when i got the email. She told my husband that we didn't consult her . WOW i had no idea we had a house consutent. I didn't know she was the house governor. She said this is the first time she was able to decorate thats funny because her other apts. She lived on the first floor just not in the main part of the house. And she always decorated around her door. The front door is my only way in. How dare she say I know it sucks to live upstairs and not be able to use the lawn.... She has no idea. She took the downstairs cause she has a child. Not so she could decorate. if that where the reason then she is a loser. I can't believe we are having a family fued over me hanging up halloween decorations.... She said well im gonna decorate in like 3 weeks and u can help then. No thanks. Cause anything I put out will benefit u. Its the end of sept take down the summer crap. She said well I thought it looked cute. Mike said ya it would have been cute in June or July you put it up after labor day.

I have no desire to speak with her anymore.


When we moved in the land lord gave us the key to the shed it is the house shed for T who asked whos shed was it. My aunts and Cousin where all over when my DH talked to her so now they all know. And Im sure they will side with her. Just like always.

She complained about the 100.00s of dollars she spent on flowers for the front yard. Is that my fault no. No one asked you to do that, U rent you don't have to make the outside look pretty. She also told us she was going to give the reciepts to the landlord for the flowers so who is she kidding....
tray831 Posted:

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How old is your cousin??? Is this your first cousin??

HearzBellz Posted:

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Oh my Kristin, she sounds (no offense) a little delusional...like she owns the house.

Really, I would be very surprised if the landlord gives her even the time of day regarding the receipts for the flowers & such.

marymoon Posted:

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Good luck to her with those flower receipts. She should go for it, just to give everyone a good laugh. I couldn't even get my LL to pay to clean te damn place befoe we moved in.

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