Like is it ok if he buys new kicks and then you can get your hair done?
Is your $$ his $$?
Is his car your car?
Suzanne
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we share all of it.. joint checking and savings ,CD's.. our credit cards our in both our names.. I have my car his car but only cause that means he picked one out and i picked one out., but i use his all the time... this is the way its been for a very long time, even before we were married...sometimes i have to keep his spendaholic but in check though
Robeymuse
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Everything is ours. He is so cute. He lives 987 miles away but will call to tell me that he is working on 'our garden'. It is 'his house' technically that I am going to move into but he refers to it as 'our house'. Last time he was in town, I needed to go to the ATM but he just gave me money and said, what is mine is yours.
Thrilled
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We have our own individual accounts as well as a joint account. Everything for 'us' comes out of the joint, but if I want a new blouse or shoes or want to have my hair done, it comes out of my account. If he wants to drop $700 on 4 tickets to the Yankees/ Cubs game in Chicago then it comes out of his account. It works beautifully.
kptoys
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We share everything. We call things his or mine but we each have free reign on each others things.
OctBride05
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yes everything is ours. i can take money from his wallet when i need it and he can take from me.
Stacey1403
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We share everything! Joint checking and joint savings too
Ronnie&Theresa
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We have shared everything since the day we moved in. But I would never be spending Ronnies earned $$ on 600 bags if I wasn't working. What is fair is fair...
I spoil him and those I love!
Sassy
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We share everything. We still have separate accounts for our payroll, but we transfer most of it to the joint accounts. The apartment is ours, the car is ours, and even his son is OURS. I LOVE it this way
Ronnie&Theresa
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The best thing we share is POPPIE
I never had one and I kinda like it..
I am now Poppie's Princess...
wacky
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Well, we dont tell each other what we can spend or how we can spend.
I usually take $$ from Svens night table because I never have any.
The only problem we have is that Im a spender and Sven is a saver.
But we use what we want
Kathy116
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Everything is also 'ours', we share a bank account, and even our 'seperate' accounts aren't really so, since he's either transferring $$ from his own account to mine, or I use my account for something of his...or we us our joint.
It's not an issue with us.
HeatherandNick
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we share everything - joint accounts and all. Although I keep track of them - so I always have final say. If he buys sometging for himslef I will not go out and get something for me b/c it is only fair. We just do what we want when we to.
cluelessbride
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We keep separate checking accounts from which we each pay our own credit card bills. I don't know how or it this will change when we get married.
All of our things though are each other's and we freely take cash from each other's wallets
Fran M
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Everything is ours.
Except for the new lawnmower - he calls it 'His Lawnmower' - I have no problem with that!
boosh78201
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We share everything, money, chores, even the remote!!
pschica
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i think so - we do it already!
Chloegirl
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As far as money goes...he is better than I am. We share a checking and savings account and he usually puts more in the accounts than I do, but we both have our own until we get married too.
He pays for lots of stuff I don't, I havn't really gotten used to the sharing my money thing. He makes more than me so its easier for him to share!
kelly4
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We make the exact amount, so yes, what's mine is his and what's his is mine! I like it that way!
