Isn't this all so overwhelming?

I'm starting to realize that finding the DJ and the florist and the reception site and the photographer and the videographer and the limos... that's the easy stuff. But I keep getting a little panicked every time I think of the little stuff, like making the petal cones, the invitations, the crying packs, the programs, the monograms on the cakes, the menus, all the PERSONAL stuff. Does anyone else agree? I think I'm just afraid of DIY projects... and I am SO impressed with what others have done, I'm afraid mine will look like crapola. .