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It's been awhile..some sad updates.-Update

Nuvia97 Posted:

It's been awhile..some sad updates.-Update

HI Ladies

I know it has been awhile since I have been on this site. Much has happened since our wedding. My dad's last radiation treatment was 3 days before the wedding and he was so weak that he came close to missing it, but he wouldnt let his little girl down. My dad walked me down the aisle and gave me away to the man I love. Once I get the pictures I will post them up. We spent 2 amazing weeks on our honeymoon in Barcelona and a Mediterranean cruise. When we returned, daddy was there to welcome us back home, but then he was hospitalized a day later.

My dad died last Monday morning, 6/15 3 weeks after the wedding. Last week was truly the hardest in my whole life, I watched my dad pass away, turned 30 4 days later and had my very 1st father's day without him.

I am blessed to have an amazing husband, family and friends who have been keeping me sane. But the one thing I am truly blessed to have had was that day with my dad.

I haven't had the heart to go pick up our pro pics yet with everything going on, so I attached two non-pro pics below.

Thank you to all of those who sent their condolences and prayers.

Hopefully soon I will be able to return back to the site with some pictures and reviews from the wedding, because there are some vendors who truly went above and beyond on that day to make it just right and I couldn't thank them enough.

Update:

Words cannot express how thankful I am to read each of your comforting words. As I sit here at work, shedding some tears, I had to share what my best friend from HS said to me yesterday. She lost her father 4 yrs ago and knew what I was going through. She said to me, ' I know its so hard and it will take time to heal. I am not sure if I told you this but I was speaking to your dad at the wedding and you know what he said to me, he said it was the best day of his entire life.' Just hearing that had me balling on the phone, but realizing he held on, he had the strength to be there on that blessed day and welcome us home and for that I will always be grateful.

From the bottom of my heart, Thank you all so very much.
Jennmolloy Posted:

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Losing a parent is the hardest thing to go through. Know that he is watching every move you make and will always be in your heart.
Dr Meg Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. I am sure you cherish the fact that he was there to share your special day with you.

geegee827 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

Gracie821 Posted:

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coldasice217 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear this. What a beautiful picture of the two of you together.
mosh424 Posted:

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I am so sorry about your dad's passing

your family and you are in my prayers
MLAngelo Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear that, but it is so great that you will always have the memory of him walking you down the aisle and giving you away. I am sure he was a very proud father that day and was happy he got to be there for that moment.

Thoughts are with you.
AugustBridein09 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about your dad.
Ednkim4eva Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. My prayers and thoughts are will you during this difficult time. I hope brighter days are ahead for all of you.

NikkiR515 Posted:

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I am so sorry for your loss.. I lost my stepfather to cancer 5 months ago and it really is one of the worst things a person can go through... If you EVER need anyone to talk to, feel free to fm me! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
LaBellaVita622 Posted:

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What a blessing to have your dad walk you down the aisle. My thoughts & Prayers are with you & your family...he will still be with you everyday for the rest of your life.

cnr1408 Posted:

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I'm sorry to hear about your dad, you and your family are in my prayers.

tammi2308 Posted:

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Luz,
I'm so sorry for you loss You and your family will be in my prayers tonight. Having a supportive and loving husband by your side to get you through this is a blessing..Your pics look beautiful, you looked beautiful, and I'm so happy for you that you were able to walk down the aisle with your father. stay strong.
ttdiff11 Posted:

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im soo sorrry about the sad news. im so happy he was able to be there for ur wedding tho. again, im so sorry.

mlcvln129 Posted:

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It's like somebody upstairs knew that you needed your daddy to be there for you on your big day and right after the HM. Funny how life works that way sometimes. . .even though this isn't a funny situation. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time!

FutureMrsG Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about your father...I am sure you will always cherish the memories of your wedding day. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

KerriJohnS Posted:

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Im soooooo sorry to hear about this. terribly sorry.

I do have to say.,.. it's amazing that he was able to make it there for your day and walk you down the aisle. You will always have that memory. So sweet! Cherish it. I'm sure you will.

My heart goes out to you. Im really really sorry for your loss.
fonz616 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My condolences to you and your family. May the loving memories of your father throughout your life and on your special day comfort you during this difficult time & in the future.

chicky724 Posted:

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I just teared up when I read this. I am SO sorry about your dad but so bittersweet that at least he was there for your wedding!

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