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ur sil is CRAZY .....

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eeeeEEekKKkkk... ummm woah! you should stamp an L on her forehead!!!! dont let it get to you.. that's what she wants!!

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She sounds like she is extremely jealous and envious of your happiness. She also seems very insecure and miserable in her own life! She made it very clear in her blog that she wanted to get married first (obviously she hasn't) and this isn't the way she imagined things going. I actually feel sorry for her because she sounds like she is so miserable that she can't find it in her heart to be happy for her own brother. Even worse, she has nothing better to do with her life then write hurtful blogs indirectly to you and her own brother. How immature! I am sure you are VERY happy at this moment that you did not put her in your wedding party....in doing this she just reminded you of how very smart you are! Just IMAGINE if you HAD made her your bridesmaid!!!!! Just remember, you are marrying your fiance and its just the TWO of you! All that matters is your happiness together! It seems like you only have to tolerate his sister a few times a year....consider yourself lucky! This was a HUGE issue involving his family and he handled it amazingly! Give him a big kiss......the whole family/fiance conflicting issues can get tough.....i've been there too! :0

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Boy that situation *****; I read the first post too. My advice? Don't do anything.

Sometimes you just can't change people.

I've had a rough time with my FSIL and I finally accepted that we will be cordial and friendly and that is it. We won't hang out, go out to dinner, etc. I spent a lot of time and energy trying to build a relationship with her and it was futile.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and their way in choosing to express their opinion. Don't let her get the best of you. Be the bigger person and show her that it doesn't affect you.

HUGS

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ok so afterr researching all the info.. she is totally doing this for attention and the best way to play at her is not give her any at all... that way she has no way to really be mad at youbecause you are doing exactly as you were told... but it will piss her off because you are not playing into her little game. she will realize it doesnt bother you, and you can move on with your wedding planning..

personally I would doall my wedding planning in front of her for the next few weeks just to pisss her off ( oh I can be a beoach!)

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Sorry to crash, I read your other post and truly she is out of line. Dont let her myspace blog affect you. It definitely seems like it was meant to hurt you and in a way rope you into asking her. MY SIL was not in the BP, that was MY choice to make.

If she thinks that he is too young-TOUGH SHIIT on her! DO NOT let her bother you-I know its easiery said then done but that is what she wants. Me, I would personally comment on her blog and pull her card-but that may cause more non sense to come down on you. Just try not to let it get to you, there are people in this world that will ALWAYS try to bring you down...dont let someone do it to you! Obviously you are a better person then her since this has affected you-she is coniving! Your FH needs to tell her to take it down-b/c regardless of what she THINKS or KNOWS about him that has nothing to do with your relationship with him. he loves you-he made the choice to marry you-just as people have made the choice not to marry her

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It definitely seems like an ATTENTION-GRABBING act!!! I would leave it alone right now as much as it bothers you. It's really immature of her.. and if she doesn't get too much attention from it she will stop!

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maybe the best advice is just to ignore it and not let it bother you..(even tho ur brewin inside lol) sometimes its best to just let it go