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It's Time to Bite the Bullet....

FLaCaTaCa Posted:

It's Time to Bite the Bullet....

Hi Ladies!!!
How are you all? Well, it's time to let the truth be told. Pat and I cancelled our wedding. It happened on Christmas Eve. Yes, it took me a while to spill the beans. I just wanted to make sure that I was OK before posting. I wasn't too sure I was even going to say anything...I just didn't want to keep lying to those kind girls that FM'd me.

It's a long story but in the end, Pat and I wanted 2 very different things out of life. As far as a career, raising a family, location, finances and a few other things. We will try to remain friends because in the end...we obviously really care about eachother but I will be the first to admit that it has been hard.

Don't want to get too personal or throw any dirt on his name because he is a good man...just not for me as a husband. Life takes it's turns and things happen. It's what we make out of the plates we are served that show what type of person we are. I like to think of myself as a strong person so that is exactly what I have been...Strong!

To those girls that I told in January...thank you for your kind words of support, your welcoming words and your secrecy. I am eternally grateful!

Instead of saying that you are sorry for my situation...just welcome me back and let's plan all of your beautiful weddings!!!! My day will come and I am comforted in knowing that I have all of you to help join me when the time does come.

I Love You Girls with All My Heart and You Have All Truly Been Missed!!!!!!!!

~Stacy xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

***I also want to add that my vendors have been absolutely GREAT with everything and accomodating my situation. When my day does come I would not change any one of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!***
Trina (Expressions Floral Design), Makeup by Oksana, Jenn (The Hair Genie), Ariana Waterfall, Regal Bridal, Dawn from Cruise One, Cathy from Sweet Nut Hut, Jim Tartuglia
lilacwine Posted:

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It's great to have sucha strong woman back on LIW!

cocoa Posted:

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You are a smart and very wise person!!! Much luck and love to you always!!! And the fact that you aren't defaming his name...bravo!!!
LadyPrincess Posted:

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You said it well Stacy -Life has a way of dealing interesting thngs to us - we all handle it in the best way possible.
Welcome back girl - you were SOOOOOOOO MISSED !!!!
diamondgrlie Posted:

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Oh Stacy... I am sorry you had to go through this but it seems you have gotten to a point where you know its for the best.
FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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Posted by diamondgrlie

Oh Stacy... I am sorry you had to go through this but it seems you have gotten to a point where you know its for the best.


That is exactly where I am. I just know that it is for the best and I am dealing with it well and one day at a time. There really is no other way. Missed you Diane!
hbradio Posted:

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Stacy - I am so sorry However it seems that you know that its for the best and you are doing very well with it. Good for you!
Donna&Joe708 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear about this, Stacy. You sound like a very strong woman! Speaking from experience, it's better to have this happen before you got married than after. I hope everything works out for the best for you!
JP&EP Posted:

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So glad you're officially back!!
Luv ya
May05Bride Posted:

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welcome back!!!!!
RedHead Posted:

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You know i love ya girl!!

I am glad you are back!!
Ronkonkomonga Posted:

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Wonderful to have you back!!!!
FutureAJ8505 Posted:

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Glad to have you back
brooklynbridezilla Posted:

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Stacy, we missed you! Good for you for being so strong.
Bebalina Posted:

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Stacy I am so sorry to hear that.... I'm glad that you are strong to deal with all of this, and that you know it's the right thing. I admire your strength!

Glad to have you back!!
KimberlyBride Posted:

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Glad to have you back
divabride Posted:

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Stacy, I never once doubted your strength, and again you prove me right. You are wise beyond your years and I truly believe you will rise above the ashes like the true phoenix that you are. Much love to you always!!!
Happybride2005 Posted:

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i missed u here. glad to see u back
gtsgirl Posted:

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WELCOME BACK CHICKA...its about time LOL..
lillian771 Posted:

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Welcome back, you've been missed!

I admire the strength, foresight, and intelligence its taken for you to make this decision.

I'm glad you're still with us!

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