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Ive officially given up

sugarnspice Posted:

Ive officially given up

I have been looking for a dress for almost two months. Ive been everywhere. I cant find anything I can see myself getting married in and I now have eight months. I am buying the next dress I put on and will just be sure to get pretty BM dresses so I can look at them all night.

KRISTIND Posted:

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wear a bridesmaid dress and make them wear white

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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you will find it....just ask Christine (christinenralph) she went to a million places and tried on hundreds of dresses but she finally find the one...don't worry you will find it!
Kiki1103 Posted:

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Don't give up yet!!! I know its tough but you gotta keep looking, you will definitely find one eventually.
MayBride2010 Posted:

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You will find it - dont give up!

Jen2525 Posted:

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don't give up! i was having trouble too....what helped me was seeing the dresses i liked online and in a magazine and then i would call the places up and ask if they had those dresses. i needed to see the dress on a model because i hated just going through the racks! the dress i bought was one that i had seen online (pronovias). hope that helps!!
MrsC2010 Posted:

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dont give up!!

have you been trying all different styles or basically one style dress? Maybe you need to try on all different things that you wouldnt think you would like...you never know it could end up looking and feeling great on you!
Lsorrent Posted:

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Posted by MrsC2010

dont give up!!

have you been trying all different styles or basically one style dress? Maybe you need to try on all different things that you wouldnt think you would like...you never know it could end up looking and feeling great on you!




I agree with this. I knew I wanted a ball gown, but originally I thought I wanted one with very little detailing. Well all the ones with little detailing just seemed too boring for me. Then I tried one on with a lot of detailing, and my entire mindset changed! Maybe you just need to 'think outside the box' for this one. But don't give up...just be patient!

paprika023 Posted:

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let us know what style you were looking for.. maybe we can all post a pic of that style dress we love that you can look at..

don't give up! there are a million dresses out there, one is youres!!!
Christine N Ralph Posted:

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Posted by stinenandy2010

you will find it....just ask Christine (christinenralph) she went to a million places and tried on hundreds of dresses but she finally find the one...don't worry you will find it!



Christine is RIGHT!!!! I went to sooooo many places....it got to the point of me crying when I was putting on gowns because I hated everything I tried on...me and my mother would argue in the store...it ended up being a horrible experience....UNTIL...I went to the last place (Valentina's Bridal) and I found a dress that I loved. I would suggest going there...the dressmaker will make you a custom dress that wont cost you a fortune either...Hang in there you will find somthing
MarjorieFrank Posted:

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Awww, don't give up!! It is your wedding gown, don't settle for anything less than what you want for yourself! You will find one
Jen2525 Posted:

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i just saw your getting married in 2011! you have soooooooo much time!! Don't stress! you can even take a break for a little bit and start back up fresh :)

StaceYums81 Posted:

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Don't give up! You will find something!

mbscheer Posted:

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Don't give up!!! Where have you gone so far??

grrulz Posted:

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don't give up trustttttttttt meeeeee! i started trying dresses on since last august and I found the one this past february it takes timeeeeee you will def know when you found the oneeee good luck

egem523 Posted:

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Posted by Christine N Ralph


Posted by stinenandy2010

you will find it....just ask Christine (christinenralph) she went to a million places and tried on hundreds of dresses but she finally find the one...don't worry you will find it!



Christine is RIGHT!!!! I went to sooooo many places....it got to the point of me crying when I was putting on gowns because I hated everything I tried on...me and my mother would argue in the store...it ended up being a horrible experience....UNTIL...I went to the last place (Valentina's Bridal) and I found a dress that I loved. I would suggest going there...the dressmaker will make you a custom dress that wont cost you a fortune either...Hang in there you will find somthing




So funny the samething happen to me. I went to sooo many places I even took days off. Valentina was my last place I visited and I literally found my dress within 20 mins of being there. They have a great selection and you custom make.
sugarnspice Posted:

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Posted by Jen2525

i just saw your getting married in 2011! you have soooooooo much time!! Don't stress! you can even take a break for a little bit and start back up fresh :)



Not my real date. I have eight months
MikesBride2B Posted:

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Honestly, I really didn't get that feeling either. I STILL can't picture myself wearing that dress and walking down the aisle, but I know that I like that dress way more than I liked any other dress. I'm not at all saying you should settle, but know that not everyone gets that OMG, this is THE ONE reaction...I didn't shed a tear or feel that way, it was a pretty logical thing for me.

Have you gone to RK Bridal in the city? I have they have an insane amount of dresses to try.
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Ali!!! don't fret girl.....

I haven't even begun to look yet.....

What kind of dress do you want to see yourself in? Maybe we can help you out and point you to some places that you haven't gone to yet....
chrisandletizia Posted:

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don't give up!!!!!!!!

i thought I had found the one and then saw it the second time and hated it and had to start all over again

the ONE will come just give it time and don't give up

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