just found out when my shower is. UPDATED w her RESPONSE...

Original post by JeanetteandSteve

Mar 23, 2008 11:39 PM

i was SO excited about it being a surprise. i just got an email from a friend asking me if i wanted to go out for my bday the night of my shower since my shower is the saturday after my bday. and then in parenthesis she gave me kind of a whoops...i hope your shower isn't a surprise 'lol' and if it is oh well pretend i didn't tell you.

i never had a surprise party before and i was really excited that this was going to be one. and i'm hurt that she's so whatever about the whole thing. i don't know why she would do that to me. i just hope none of the girls in my BP finds out i know since they've been working so hard to keep it a secret...maybe she told me b/c she's mad she's not in the BP. whatever the reason, i'm so angry right now.

ETA:

this is what she wrote...sorry but i'm getting more mad b/c she obviously knew she shouldn't tell me...so why the F did she?!?!

'your bday is that week and then your bridal shower (i really hope you know about it, i hope its not a surprise lol and if it is, pretend like i never said anything) anyways, then i know your bridal shower is the weekend after your bday....so i dont know when you wanna go out, lemme know =)'

*****UPDATE...so last night i left her a VM and this morning she wrote me a text telling me she feels stupid now and will NOT BE COMING TO MY SHOWER!!!! but it wasn't an apology, it was more like she was mad that i was upset! threatening not to come now?? i would NEVER do that to her!!

oh well, i'm just gonna forget it now and hope she comes. and if she doesn't there is nothing i can do about it i guess.

at least i can be excited...my shower is in less than 2 weeks!!! yay!!

Shelly9697 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 08:22 AM

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That is terrible!! Hopefully she is trying to throw you off and not ruining the surprise!!

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 08:50 AM

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I really hope she is throwing you off..................thats is so messed up if she is telling the truth...lets just think that she is throwing you off

bluekat16 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 08:55 AM

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That is horrible. I'm sorry she told you!

soon2bmrsconnolly Posted: Mar 24, 2008 08:59 AM

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Some people are just completely oblivious to everything around them.

JeanetteandSteve Posted: Mar 24, 2008 09:14 AM

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i updated the original post b/c i couldn't believe i got a text this morning saying she's not COMING now!! i'm upset w HER and instead of a real apology she gave me some sh!t about how she's so 'stupid' and she isn't coming.

ANYway...

soon2bmrsconnolly Posted: Mar 24, 2008 09:16 AM

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sounds like an immature b*tch to me

less than 2 weeks!

Toucan311 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:23 AM

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Wow, what a child. I hope she's not in your BP.

bluegreen08 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:29 AM

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wow, how immature can she be?

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:34 AM

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tell her to get over her damnn self...she is obviously mad at herself and feels stupid.
I would ignore it then when it comed close mention- oh- i'll' see ya there

i wasnt surprised at all for my showe, but you will be surprised about the place and decore still and anything they have planned...im sorry she ruinied your surprise- people suuck!!

DD628 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:36 AM

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awww honey! I am sorry this is going on.
Dont stress it...

Two Peas Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:37 AM

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Posted by DD628

maybe she is throwing you off....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I was thinking the same thing...I don't think you can be that out of it and just blatantly slip up like that. She is probably trying to throw you off.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Mar 24, 2008 10:38 AM

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what a petty, stupid little girl! I'm so sorry Jeanette. That really stinks! You're better off if she doesn't come!

But it's awesome that your shower is coming up!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!

Ayne11 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 07:40 PM

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Posted by JeanetteandSteve

i updated the original post b/c i couldn't believe i got a text this morning saying she's not COMING now!! i'm upset w HER and instead of a real apology she gave me some sh!t about how she's so 'stupid' and she isn't coming.

ANYway...

She's smoke screening now to divert attention away from the fact that she's a total a$$hole for spoiling your surprise!!!! What a manipulator!

She obviously didn't want your day to be special, and it's probably a blessing in disguise that she won't be there.

angl2001 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 07:41 PM

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lol and you can pack a camera in your bag lol be like ' howd that get there??' lol

bella1028 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 07:46 PM

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ugh....i would be upset too and her handling of the situation is awful...so sorry...very inconsiderate

AR31 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 07:46 PM

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what a nasty B!!! don't let such people get to you! i hope for her sake she was throwing you off!

Ayne11 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 07:49 PM

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Posted by AR31

i hope for her sake she was throwing you off!

I don't think she was. I think she said FH confirmed it to be true by how upset he became about the spoiler.

Butterfly123 Posted: Mar 24, 2008 08:00 PM

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This girl sounds like a real douche. Im sorry that happened. I hope you dont apologize to her cause you didnt do anything wrong. She ruined your surprise she shouldnt act like youre the wrong one for confronting her about it. Screw that.