Lately I have been feeling a little nervous

Get out of my head! There are times when I feel this way...but then I reflect on the past ten years we've shared together. Always remember that there will be peaks and valleys

I just read this and feel the same thing to sometimes.. but I know that he is the one and although I am stressed so so much.. i know he's the one who keeps me sane sometimes.( and drives me insane) but.. i love him!!!
larryswife2b- its been 7 years for us, and I know thats the truth!!

This worked for me & some of my friends. Take a break from planning!!! Give youselves a week or so off to just work on you as a couple. With all the planning you are doing you sometimes forget about the relationship. It will make a difference!!

Thanks to everyone. I feel like a load has been lifted of my shoulders. I feel so much better today.

First let me say that its kinda eery how I am reading this and hearing things that I am thinking or have said....My FH has been really stressed with work lately and for some reason I have translated that to he is not excited to be getting married! and I keep asking him if he is happy that he proposed! And I agree with Tracy, our priest gave us some great advice, he said every so often (at least once every 3 weeks) go out and dont discuss the future, dont discuss the wedding, just go out and remember all the things you love about your relationship with each other. I think we women tend to get in a frenzy about the details and forget to just sit back and enjoy each other!
This has probably been one of the best threads I have read so far!!!!!!!

hang in there...I think it is only natural to feel nervous and excited.

It's normal to feel this way.

If you didn't have a SINGLE doubt, I would say you weren't giving your decision to marry enough thought.

Having a few doubts shows you are considering ALL the aspects of getting married, not just the lovey-dovey romantic ones. It shows that you're using your head, not just your heart.

I had some of the same doubts myself...Am I sure he's the right one? Am I sure I'm ready for this?

Underneath it all, I always came back to my love for him and the knowledge that he was the best thing I could ever hope for, everything I ever wanted. Yes, he has his quirks, we ALL do. But at his core he is a fantastic and wonderful man.

So obviously, I went through with it! We've been married 3 months now!

And just to let you all know...you may have a few doubts surface again AFTER you're married. 'OMG! I'm MARRIED! What did I do? Was it the right thing to do?? Can I do this for the rest of my LIFE?' That's all normal too! The first year is a period of alot of adjustments, and ups and downs. So expect some bumps along the way, and don't freak!

Good luck to everyone!!