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lighting the tapers for the unity candle

tropicalbride07 Posted:

lighting the tapers for the unity candle

when do they get lit?

We wanted our moms to light them. Our moms are also doing the readings. My mom is walking me down the aisle, so could each mom/reader light the taper after the reading?

Or is there a better time? Or can they just be lit for the start of the ceremony by no one?
reenielady Posted:

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I would have the mom's light the candles right before the 1st reading.

summer06bride Posted:

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Our moms lit those tapers right before we light our unity candle...they lit it gave it to us and we lit the candle...

KandE917 Posted:

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Posted by summer06bride

Our moms lit those tapers right before we light our unity candle...they lit it gave it to us and we lit the candle...



stupid question but do they just light the tapers with a match??? thanks.
SummerBride06 Posted:

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the unity candle was the very last thing we did. it was after our vows. we lit the tapers from the candles burning at the altar

PegaLega Posted:

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at FSILs wedding they were lit at the start of the ceremony by the Priest...but it was short. I would have the moms light them when its time. Also ask your officiant (etc.) maybe they can offer advice on what/how to do it

summer06bride Posted:

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Posted by KandE917


Posted by summer06bride

Our moms lit those tapers right before we light our unity candle...they lit it gave it to us and we lit the candle...



stupid question but do they just light the tapers with a match??? thanks.



not a stupid question...they used the candle on the altar (this was in a church)...they are two candles lit on each side of altar they lit their candle on 'their side'

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