Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

wacky Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:49 PM

Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

Anyone else feel like now thats its their time people who you expected more from cant be bothered, becuase they have been there done that.

And has anyone noticed themselves becoming bitter as you get older?

nrvbrd Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:54 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

Yes Wacky.

People on my end can't be bothered but yet they have all the opinions in the world.

Secondly I am very bitter at times. I have no faith in people sometimes. Their behavior and attitudes disappoint me.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:54 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

No..

I have always been bitter!

sonia Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:54 PM

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if i could only explain to you well i relate to that. sigh..

Misty Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:55 PM

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farah416 Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:56 PM

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Absolutely. I've really gotten a feel for who my true friends are these past few years!

wacky Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:56 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

So Im no the only one?

T

nrvrd bored what the hell is wrong with people? As I have gotten older or actually this whole wedding thing, I have made a mental list of who I will not be so giving to in the future.

I never say no and NOW Im starting too.

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:57 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

BE like me..

HAte everyone..

It makes getting let down alot easier!!

Weddings and happy times make people see

eroxgirl Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:57 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

Absolutely!!!! Most of my BP is married, except for the one BM who called off 2 weddings!!! So except for my MOH, and even sometimes her as well, I feel I have NO ONE to talk to about all my wedding stuff...that's why I'm always here!

Misty Posted: Apr 11, 2003 02:59 PM

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You're right T...I've really learned to expect only the LEAST from people...this way you aren't let down, and you are happier when you actually get the most!

wacky Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:00 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

Teresa I am giving by nature I cant help it. Maybe you should teach class and I dont beleive you hate every one.

My problem is that I am genuinely happy for people and I show it, and Im sick of others turning their nose down at me until its good for them.

Erox I hear ya,

MaryK Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:00 PM

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I am surprised at how many people I thought would not evern show have shown so much interest and excitement and offered so much help! And the people I thought would be right there besides me - totally no where to be found.

Doesn't make me hate anyone, though. I guess I focus less on the flakers (Lord knows I probably flaked on people too now that I realize it). It makes me appreciate all the people I though wouldn't care who have shown so much support!

(Always looking for the bright side! )

christine1221 Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:04 PM

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Misty's right. You really find out who your friends are at times like this. Believe me, the people who are your friends will come through hell & high water to be with you, help you out, do things with you. The others will eventually fall away anyway. It's eye opening, that's for sure.

But as much as you can be dissapointed in some friends, others will step up & show you how much they love you no matter what! Those are the people who will celebrate your 50th with you!!!

wacky Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:04 PM

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You have to look at the bright side, other wise you become a dried up raisin.

Im just in the mood to complain today

christine1221 Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:06 PM

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Mary ... you're so funny! Always a bright side with you .... Suzy sunshine ... that's why we love you!

christine1221 Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:07 PM

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It's ok Wacky! Complain away .. we don't mind!

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:10 PM

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Frenchie..

U have to get to know ME better..

I Don't like MANY PEOPLE AT ALl..

I am sick of PEOPLE in general..
I am usually misunderstood..
My genoristy is always taken as showing off..
People take my kindness for weakness..
I won't be jerked.. I am not Kind anymore..I don’t like being sad or upset!
If I like you .. You know it and I will be a friend for life. If I DON”T like you..OH BOY! Beat it.. You know!
I would be HONORDED TO BE SOMEONE'S BM..
or be a part of their day..
But MOST people aren't like that.. They don’t have the sense to say no so they are in it and complain..The girls I have chosen are girls who couldn’t be happier..
I don’t want to deal with more then I already have to with INLAWS!
I don't have time or patience for MOST people
That is why I have PASQUALE!

wacky Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:13 PM

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TERESA I COULDNT HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF.

curly2003 Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:16 PM

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YYYYEEESSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!

jtodaro Posted: Apr 11, 2003 03:17 PM

Re: Misteyed's Post Got me thinking,

well put theresa

lets just say that after the wedding ill have a great excuse not to attend certain other peoples weddings/christenings etc.

there are some people on my list (friends and family) that i never imagined my wedding without. all i have to say is F them all....