MOH vs. the bridesmaid dress...

Original post by nmagel

Jun 29, 2007 11:43 AM

My MOH hates every single dress I show her for the wedding!! I think the total is 27 so far. She either tells me they are horrific or 'I guess it's ok if you like that. It's not for me'... I know everyone says to pick out a dress I like and too bad, but it really bothers me. I might just go one day w/ another BM and pick the dresses.

Soon2BeMrsFitzy Posted: Jun 30, 2007 05:35 PM

Re: MOH vs. the bridesmaid dress...

I guess I'm lucky too. I asked my MOH what she wanted and she kept telling me that it's my day and she'll wear whatever I tell her too. I think we feel a little obligated to their opinions b/c we know how much the dresses are costing them.
I would just tell her that you asked for her opinion 1000 times and it didn't get you anywhere. The decision had to be made, you took her opinions into consideration and this is what you chose. You have a million things to worry about and her loving/hating her dress should be the least of your problems...she's supposed to be supportive...that's why you picked her to be the MOH!

SoontobeMrsH Posted: Jun 30, 2007 05:37 PM

Re: MOH vs. the bridesmaid dress...

I would talk to her and see if / what the ommon facor about the 27 other dresses were... Maybe she is uncomfortable w/ an area of her body, and that can be why she didn't lke it. Or maybe it is the cost . You picked your sister to be your MOH b/c you are close and want her to share your day w/ you right? I'm sorry that this is so difficult for you Good luck w/ everything and maybe the heart to heart will help