I want to stick with tradition and have just single BMs and ushers for my wedding party. However, my FH wants to include his cousin, who is married, because 'I have to include him b/c I was an usher in his wedding.' Well....the girl that I would pair him up with is a really close friend of mine (who is single) who informed that he was hitting on her/flirting with her at my e-party!!! What a creep!!!
I don't think it's really any of my FH's business--besides, I don't think he would believe what my friend said anyways. I just know that my friend would be REALLY uncomfortable (and I don't blame her) if I paired them up together at the wedding. So I was thinking I would suggest that my friend be paired up with my brother (who is single).
What do you girls think?? What would you do if you were in my position??
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Re: My dilemma....
Posted by AeroJenn
Posted by dplehat
Maybe its me but I would think that it is more rude to exclude your brother. he is your family. So fh would rather have his cousin just because he was in his wedding then your brother who will soon be his brother. odd, no?
I agree. I know this isnt exactly the topic you posted, but I think your brother should be in the BP instead of the cousin. Your brother is immediate family...he may feel very excluded. Plus, the cousin is obviously causing problems.
I just hope my FH doesn't insist that I put his sister and her husband in the wedding party as well. I can't stand her!
