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kabo0831 Posted:

my fmil called-update-update

12:43am sunday- well it was all a plan, i got the phone and it was from my mom, dad, ffil, and fmil. They told me that they had to do it b/c they cant suprise me easy. So i got my xmas gift early.. Im so excited. I hate when ppl play jokes on me.... Thanks ladies for all the support!!! you all are great ppl and im glad i found your girls....

12:00pm- I just called fh to let him know that i dont want anything for xmas from his parents and then he starts with his additude and starts to yell. So then he cont. to tell me that i should go home after work and that i should call his mom to let her know this, I told him that he should call her and let her know what is going on, i was like you have an additude today since you called me this morning about your mom and he was like no i havent then he says that it is me. yea it is me, i just dont want your mom to beitch at me when she offered. I dont want it. So now we arent talkinf thanks to his mom.... I love the holiday spirit she has to give

Ok why do FMIL so mean????? I dont know why they have to be, Well tonight i was suppose to go to the store with fh and his mom to get my xmas gift b/c she doesnt know what to get me. So she was going to take me to go get my new cell phone that was going to be from my fmil ,ffil, and fmil. Well the phone is going to run about $250. and i feel really bad to begin with about them buy it and then she calls me to make me feel worst. Well she said that we can get the phone today but if the guy doesnt take cash and not charge me taxes we will get it and if he does then we cant get it. I was like that is fine i dont mine. but you know what if that is the case then ill pay the damn taxes. Or better yet i told her that i dont want anything for xmas and then she got mad.
I just upsets me that she can be so mean. I dont want anything from her now for xmas..........
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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That stinks. When people are nasty about gift giving, it makes you wonder why they even give at all! I'd rather not get something than have to go through a tremendous hassle to get it.

kabo0831 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

That stinks. When people are nasty about gift giving, it makes you wonder why they even give at all! I'd rather not get something than have to go through a tremendous hassle to get it.



that is what im thinking too FMIL's
Alexandra1028 Posted:

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That stinks....my FMIL is the sameee way
coley1027 Posted:

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aw that really does suck! i mean its christmas time! i dont get why people are so nasty about giving a gift! they should want to give gifts and be happy about it! thats what christmas is supposed to be all about. if she didnt want to buy you the phone in the first place she shouldnt have offered! and now since she did she shouldnt put stipulations on it!

just think about your vacation thats coming up!! that should cheer you up!
longislandlibrarian Posted:

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that really stinks.. if she didn't want to spend that kind of money... she shouldn't have offered fro mthe beginning.... it can be soooo FRUSTRATING!
stephlovesseyi Posted:

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Thats does stink... If she didn't want to spend that money she shouldn't have offered.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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wow... what a cheap f*cuk... excuse the language....

i wouldnt want anything from her either after that... but u have to try to just brush it off since shes gonna be around 24/7 ... u dont want to start off on bad terms before you're even married!

my fmil is a great woman... but thank god she moved to fl cuz u nevere know what they will turn into!
enewedding Posted:

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I am sorry that she hurt you but try to understand that $250 is a lot of money and maybe be out of her budget which is why she might not be able to go over with the taxes. (I don't know what her financial situation is so this is just a speculation)

Try looking on the brighter side. She cares enough about you to even buy you a gift for the holidays.

kabo0831 Posted:

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Posted by enewedding

I am sorry that she hurt you but try to understand that $250 is a lot of money and maybe be out of her budget which is why she might not be able to go over with the taxes. (I don't know what her financial situation is so this is just a speculation)

Try looking on the brighter side. She cares enough about you to even buy you a gift for the holidays.




ture but i was going to pay the taxes so she wasnt going to be stuck with that it was just he 250 and she told me this 3 weeks ago that i was going to get the phone and that for all i do for that family that i deserve it so now, i just dont want it.
Jayla127 Posted:

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Why even offer to buy you a phone if she has restrictions as to what she will get

Ann 52409 Posted:

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I wouldn't want anything either, I dont understand if the taxes are that big of an issue than maybe the phone is just too much for her to begin with and she should just say that instead of letting taxes determine her decision. It makes me think she might not really want to buy you anything, which is fine because you dont need anything from them anyway

longislandlibrarian Posted:

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Sorry you are going through this and I wouldn't want it from her anymore either!!!!!!!!!!!!!..... FH should really side with you on this and not yell at you!!!!!!!! sorry you have to deal with this

Alexandra1028 Posted:

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aww im so sorry everything will work out in the end!

PoppedInASnap Posted:

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I hate when someone wants to give a gift and then turn it around and make you feel bad!! so sos orry!

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