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My friends father was killed last night (LONG)

Original post by Belongs2DanBuckley

I don't know if any of you watch the news but a drunk/ DUI driver was being pursued by the police in Farmingdale (out of their jurisdiction mind you through a residential area) and the driver lost control and crashed through his house killing him while he was watching TV in his living room. My friend was downstairs in the basement at the time and he basically watched his father die when he came upstairs. He was pinned under the car from 2:35 pm until around 11:15 pm last night.

He's the drummer from my FI band and he's a very good friend. I feel terrible for him. He's not even allowed back there right now. They evacuated the house because they were afraid it would collapse when they pulled the car out. I'm very nervous for him. He was VERY close with his father and he does not get along with his mother.

Its really a very scary and terrible tragedy. This year has been the WORST year of my entire life and the lives of those around me with the exception of getting engaged.

You all have been so great about support and prayers. I'm asking for them now for Brian and his father's soul. Its a terrible way to die. He was retiring in June.

RIP Mr Calhoun
tara08 Posted:

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Im so sorry... my prayers and sympathy goes out to everyone who is involved in this....

faithandkevin Posted:

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Oh I'm so sorry for the family and friends of this gentleman. So so sad
Belongs2DanBuckley Posted:

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Thank you everyone for your kind words and prayers. Please have a SAFE holiday! Talk to you all soon!
rysie Posted:

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Oh I'm so sorry for you and your friend's family. I read about it this morning and felt so sad reading it. I'll keep you and yours in my prayers.....
MrsMichel07 Posted:

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I just read this in the Daily News this morning... my thoughts and prayers go out to this family
Hisforever Posted:

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Yes, I heard it on the news as I was getting ready for work this morning- and i was deeply disturbed by it. My prayers are with you & your friends family during this time.
SAMORY Posted:

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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley

I don't know if any of you watch the news but a drunk/ DUI driver was being pursued by the police in Farmingdale (out of their jurisdiction mind you through a residential area) and the driver lost control and crashed through his house killing him while he was watching TV in his living room. My friend was downstairs in the basement at the time and he basically watched his father die when he came upstairs. He was pinned under the car from 2:35 pm until around 11:15 pm last night.

He's the drummer from my FI band and he's a very good friend. I feel terrible for him. He's not even allowed back there right now. They evacuated the house because they were afraid it would collapse when they pulled the car out. I'm very nervous for him. He was VERY close with his father and he does not get along with his mother.

Its really a very scary and terrible tragedy. This year has been the WORST year of my entire life and the lives of those around me with the exception of getting engaged.

You all have been so great about support and prayers. I'm asking for them now for Brian and his father's soul. Its a terrible way to die. He was retiring in June.

RIP Mr Calhoun



WOW! I will be praying for Brian and his family. My biggest prayer will be for this tradegy will bring Brian and his mom closer together. God bless.
love2plan1 Posted:

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My prayers go out to you and your friends family. I agree with the other posts, I hope the person is punished to the fullest extent of the law

karen6474 Posted:

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i'm so sorry!! its horrible what happened to him!!!!!!
bridezilla08 Posted:

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oh i'm so sorry to hear this...my prayers and condolences to your friend and his family
megzzie Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about this! My thoughts and prayers are with this family
iBCraZ131 Posted:

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I posted on the BHB board too but I want to give huge prayers to your friends family. Unfortunately, have to say that I WITNESSED this entire awful event with my own two eyes!!! We were almost part of it!!! It was the absolute scariest thing I have ever seen in my ENTIRE life!!! We were just driving home from house shopping on Rte 109 when all of a sudden this green Pontiac G6 comes FLYING down the left lane (we were in the right lane) trying to outrun the cops and we saw him hit the divider fly over it, into oncoming traffic only to lose control, miss the house on the corner by inches to fly clean into these poor people's house!!!!!!! I couldn't believe it!! The car was COMPLETELY in the house!!!! If he had hit the curb and turned right, he would've hit the car we were in!! It was so crazy! My prayers were with the family at that time - we didn't know if anyone was in the house or if the driver of the G6 was killed or not. The cops were all there and had everything blocked off within 15 minutes. It happened so fast!!! Absolutely UNBELIEVABLE!!!

ZeppsGirl Posted:

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Posted by iBCraZ131

I posted on the BHB board too but I want to give huge prayers to your friends family. Unfortunately, have to say that I WITNESSED this entire awful event with my own two eyes!!! We were almost part of it!!! It was the absolute scariest thing I have ever seen in my ENTIRE life!!! We were just driving home from house shopping on Rte 109 when all of a sudden this green Pontiac G6 comes FLYING down the left lane (we were in the right lane) trying to outrun the cops and we saw him hit the divider fly over it, into oncoming traffic only to lose control, miss the house on the corner by inches to fly clean into these poor people's house!!!!!!! I couldn't believe it!! The car was COMPLETELY in the house!!!! If he had hit the curb and turned right, he would've hit the car we were in!! It was so crazy! My prayers were with the family at that time - we didn't know if anyone was in the house or if the driver of the G6 was killed or not. The cops were all there and had everything blocked off within 15 minutes. It happened so fast!!! Absolutely UNBELIEVABLE!!!



I cant imagine being an eye witness to that accident. I feel bad for the family...just keep hugging and loving and appreciating everyone that is close to you. That is all that we really can do.
ziamaria Posted:

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really, they didnt need to chase this guy down - that could've been prevented!!!
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kimnsteve Posted:

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so sorry Jess...just know that we are here for you!

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