My MOH backed out....
And she told me in an IM...how nice, right?
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My MOH backed out....
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WHHHAAAAATTTTT????
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YEPPPPPPPPPPP.
She said she doenst feel we were as close and shes not set financially for it.
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She said she doenst feel we were as close and shes not set financially for it.
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That is amazing. What kind of crap is that. Did you call her and see what the real issue is.
I am so sorry...I will fill in if you need me ..![]()
I am so sorry...I will fill in if you need me ..
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YEPPPPPPPPPPP.
She said she doenst feel we were as close and shes not set financially for it.![]()
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She sent you an IM Jeanine? What did you write back?
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Omg, I can't believe she did that over an IM!! ![]()
So sorry, you deserve a phone call at the very least!! ![]()
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oh im so sorry to hear about that!!! ![]()
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wow thats not a nice way of telling you either.
i am sure one of your other bridesmaids would be honored if you asked her.
if not- ill do it!![]()
i am sure one of your other bridesmaids would be honored if you asked her.
if not- ill do it!
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That's awful, I'm sorry! How long has she sat on this? When did you ask her?
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That's just terrible and extremely rude.
You asked her b/c you wanted her to be a part of your special day without any limitations and b/c you feel close to her.
Want me to kick her arse for ya???
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You asked her b/c you wanted her to be a part of your special day without any limitations and b/c you feel close to her.
Want me to kick her arse for ya???
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that is BULL$HIT!
She woudldn't even get in INVITE from me after that.
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eta: I'll do it, too!
You can have 47 LIW MOHs.![]()
She woudldn't even get in INVITE from me after that.
I'm so sorry!
eta: I'll do it, too!
You can have 47 LIW MOHs.
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I'm sorry to hear that. What's w/ these MOH's lately w/ this not being woman enough to just explain their real feelings.
Look at it like this. If she didn't have enough class to talk to you over the phone at least, (and thats not even enough for me as far as an explanation unless your out of town), then she doesn't have enough class to be in, or at your wedding.Especially not being your MOH!
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Look at it like this. If she didn't have enough class to talk to you over the phone at least, (and thats not even enough for me as far as an explanation unless your out of town), then she doesn't have enough class to be in, or at your wedding.Especially not being your MOH!
Good Luck Sweety
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EXCUSE ME?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?![]()
I have 13 bridesmaids dresses in my closet. I am coming over
I will be you MOH
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I have 13 bridesmaids dresses in my closet. I am coming over
I will be you MOH
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So sorry to hear that.
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That's crazy. I can (almost) understand someone not being able to financially swing it, but to tell you in an IM!!
That's not a friend. IMO
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That's not a friend. IMO
Things will work out.
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ugh! the nerve!! so sorry to hear...have you decided who you are going to have in her place?
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I think I would be more upset at her method of informing you than the fact that she actually can't do it.
If she doesn't have the money then she doesn't have it. But she should at least have given you the option to offer any financial assistance she may have needed.
At the same time, women need to realize that being in a bridal party is a position of honor as well as expense. The women in my bridal party (with the exception of my teen-aged nieces) are all women in their 30s, homeowners and financially independent. For some of the younger brides, your bridal attendants may not be as well established and therefore may not have the money to fulfill this obligation.
I am willing to bet she accepted because she was truly honored and caught in a moment - but then realized she was not able to do it. We have all done and responded to things on impulse - I know I have.
If she doesn't have the money then she doesn't have it. But she should at least have given you the option to offer any financial assistance she may have needed.
At the same time, women need to realize that being in a bridal party is a position of honor as well as expense. The women in my bridal party (with the exception of my teen-aged nieces) are all women in their 30s, homeowners and financially independent. For some of the younger brides, your bridal attendants may not be as well established and therefore may not have the money to fulfill this obligation.
I am willing to bet she accepted because she was truly honored and caught in a moment - but then realized she was not able to do it. We have all done and responded to things on impulse - I know I have.
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Ewww.. OMG.. How friggen RUDE!!! ![]()
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Listen.. I have heard stories of a BM dropping out.. but a MOH.. and over an IM?![]()
Sorry Jeanine. That stinks. It puts you in a weird situation right now. I understand her reasoning-believe me. Do you know of anyone else you would want to ask![]()
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OMG.. I cant believe that.
Listen.. I have heard stories of a BM dropping out.. but a MOH.. and over an IM?
Sorry Jeanine. That stinks. It puts you in a weird situation right now. I understand her reasoning-believe me. Do you know of anyone else you would want to ask
OMG.. I cant believe that.
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I'm so sorry! ![]()
Please keep us posted on how you are doing...we are all here for you!
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I'm so sorry you are going thru this. I can understand not being financially able but there are numerous things wrong with how she did this:
1.You don’t do it via IM
2.You don’t say “I don’t think we are as close” (rude & unnecessary)
3.You say no when first asked you do not wait
Listen now you know she is not a good friend, and now you can have someone who is a tru fiend will stand up for your on your wedding day.
1.You don’t do it via IM
2.You don’t say “I don’t think we are as close” (rude & unnecessary)
3.You say no when first asked you do not wait
Listen now you know she is not a good friend, and now you can have someone who is a tru fiend will stand up for your on your wedding day.
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I can't believe she couldn't call you. That's the least she could have done. Don't worry about it, I'm sure someone else will be honor to be your MOH.
