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jmgoncal Posted:

Need Opinions - Long

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So FH and I are having a semi-joint bachelor-bachelorette party. The plan is to go down to AC for a night - we will be going down in separate cars/groups of guys and girls and spending the day separately and eating dinner separately. The only time we will be meeting up is at the pool at Harrah's at midnight where we will be booking a cabana together for the night out. Then we are separating again and guys and girls are staying in separate rooms.

So one of FH's GM is married already and he is insisting that he and his wife will be going down by themselves and then staying in a room by themselves and will not partake in our 'slumber parties'. They claim it is because they are 'married' and should therefore be able to stay in their own room. Which I think is BS. We all think that reason is ridiculous, but on top of that, we all know that they get comp rooms at Harrah's b/c they go there all the time - so I'm sure the real reason they're staying in a room by themselves is b/c it will be free - which is even worse of a reason I think given that it's not being offered to the group. FH is at the point where he wants to tell them not even to come - he's really offended by the GM's behavior (which has actually been a build up of months of shady behavior culminating in this).

Ugh - this whole thing is so frustrating
halfbaked Posted:

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That's pretty stupid- if it were me and FH, we'd SO be down to spend the night apart. But, I'd probably just let them have a room together, you don't want them at your slumber parties anyway. LOL!

AngnShaun Posted:

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honestly... i dont really blame them for taking advantage of a free room... the fact that they cant be honest with you about it is a little childish tho

allornil Posted:

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my FH would be like that! he hates sleeping anywhere but by himself. I wouldn't mind if it was all in fun.

maybe hes nuts like my FH? lol
marinai7 Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

honestly... i dont really blame them for taking advantage of a free room... the fact that they cant be honest with you about it is a little childish tho



ITA.
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Sounds like a couple of cheapos!

I don't really know what kind of opinion you need though. IMO I'd just tell them if that's what they want to do, fine, but that you're all working together as a group so it's their responsibility to keep on top of whatever the activities are or risk being excluded from them, just because you guys will be operating in two large groups.

AwaitingAugust Posted:

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if i were in your GM & his wife's positions, i'd probably want to stay in a room with my hubby too (not because of the $$$ though). I just like sleeping with him, and on my own bed (not a floor, and not sharing a room with others) ... but i would probably come and hang out with you in your slumber party rooms and then go to my own room afterwards.

grkbarbie Posted:

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GUARANTEEE U.. its the wife thats behind this classless behavior

jmgoncal Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

GUARANTEEE U.. its the wife thats behind this classless behavior



OH it DEF is - she was only invited out of courtesy anyway - I'm not friends with her AT ALL which is what makes this more irritating.
AdriandSteve Posted:

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One one hand I understand them wanting to save money and use the comp room themselves. BUT, it's a little selfish. They should def offer it up to everyone so everyone's costs can go down.

I don't think it makes a difference because they're married. That's a stupid cop out and would annoy me too. They can spend 1 night apart.
AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

GUARANTEEE U.. its the wife thats behind this classless behavior



ita.
grkbarbie Posted:

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fk them.. seriously. let them do their own thing. i let certain ppl stress me out at our b-party and it wasnt pleasant at all. dont let it happen to u.

if they want to be in their own room..thats fine..MORE SPACE FOR YOU

just let them call in to find out whats going on.. dont go out of your way to call them every 30 min 'oh we are going to lunch..' 'ok we r now going to the pool' etc etc.

this is a party for YOU and FH! you are not a camp counselor.


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