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Nerves!!!

julianas Posted:

Nerves!!!

Ok, so my wedding is approaching at a rapid speed and I am getting more nervous by the minute!

I can't imagine how I am going to be on the day and I want to enjoy myself.

Any suggestions on how to calm down?
Alcohol, pills? What worked for you guys?


Thanks
MushesGirl Posted:

Re: Nerves!!!

when i went with dh for his tux try-on, he wouldnt let me see him, but i caught a glimpse of his collar from outside the store and got so choked up i freaked out....i called my gf and said 'omg if im like this now what the * am i going to do the day of?????' she said 'you'll be fine, if you feel yourself freaking out down the aisle just look for me and know i'm praying for you and sending you good vibes'. that was a good thing to know!

turns out the day of i was EXTREMELY calm and cool....more than i think i ever have been! didnt cry or bawl or get nervous....I think because I kept thinking 'this is it, ive been waiting to do this for soooo long, and its right' so there was nothing to be nervous about! hope that helps, hope i didnt ramble!
yswedding Posted:

Re: Nerves!!!

I'm afraid I'll be too nervous to enjoy too. I've got a bit more anxiety than most normally.

FH is a doctor and he really stressed to me that I do not take any pills for anxiety since I will be drinking, typically they don't mix.

But he did recommend that I make sure the sleep well the nights before.

Did you know you can just take Benadryl as a sleep remedy and its non-habit forming.

Lots of chamomile... and lavender... and meditation I hope will help.

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