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Official Out Of Town Bride Thread

Original post by MrsDR2010

I thought it would be a good idea to start a thread where us out of town brides can help each other out with the planning. It is very difficult to plan from far away. We can also vent on here too.


My name is Sheena and I live in Florida. It is so difficult to plan a wedding in NY and sometimes I wish I would have made it easier on myself and get married here. I thought it would be better since all my family lives in NY. So far I have all my major vendors booked except limo.

I look forward to meeting you ladies and getting ideas.


stinenandy2010 Posted:

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I'm kind of an OOT bride....I live in CT, about 2 hours away. So while I can go down for the weekend to do stuff its still a pain since a lot of vendors don't meet with clients on the weekends as they have weddings. But everything has worked out ok and I have a great mom and sister who have helped a lot.

Soon2bShea Posted:

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Aww Sheena you started a thread about us OOT'ers! Yay!!

I'm Kristen, I live in FL as well. This OOT planning thing is getting old LOL...I am so stressed out. I order alot of stuff online that gets shipped to my parents and everytime I fly up I have to go through everything and see whats missing and it's just plain ridiculous .

And to top it off, I am stressed out about other OOT'ers weddings...cough cough Sheena you need a dress!!!
dcstephanie Posted:

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I love this post! I live in Northern Virginia and am planning a wedding in Long Island exactly 7 months from today! My FH is from Nebraska so his parents are definitely not around to help. I think 85% of our guests are going to be from out of town! My parents are a huge help with vendors, contracts, etc. but sometimes I wish I was there to make this all so much easier!

meganbrandon Posted:

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Posted by dcstephanie

I love this post! I live in Northern Virginia and am planning a wedding in Long Island exactly 7 months from today! My FH is from Nebraska so his parents are definitely not around to help. I think 85% of our guests are going to be from out of town! My parents are a huge help with vendors, contracts, etc. but sometimes I wish I was there to make this all so much easier!



I'm also in Northern VA!!! I live in Sterling now though and work in DC & my FH is from Kansas (his family is huge Nebraska fans).... our stories sound way too alike!!!
We should meet up to plan stuff since our weddings are around each other!!!!
BellaBride27 Posted:

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Hey Everyone my name is Stephanie, FH and I just got relocated to Atlanta GA, we are both originally from LI and all our family is there as well. Planning stinks being so far away

Im a Pepper Posted:

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Oh, nice thread! Wish there would have been one of these when I was planning. We relocated to Philadelphia shortly before getting engaged. Good luck girls - hope everything turns out perfectly!
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by meganbrandon


Posted by dcstephanie

I love this post! I live in Northern Virginia and am planning a wedding in Long Island exactly 7 months from today! My FH is from Nebraska so his parents are definitely not around to help. I think 85% of our guests are going to be from out of town! My parents are a huge help with vendors, contracts, etc. but sometimes I wish I was there to make this all so much easier!



I'm also in Northern VA!!! I live in Sterling now though and work in DC & my FH is from Kansas (his family is huge Nebraska fans).... our stories sound way too alike!!!
We should meet up to plan stuff since our weddings are around each other!!!!




Cool. You guy should meet up and plan together. See this ca also help us find out if we have anypone living close to us.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bShea

Aww Sheena you started a thread about us OOT'ers! Yay!!

I'm Kristen, I live in FL as well. This OOT planning thing is getting old LOL...I am so stressed out. I order alot of stuff online that gets shipped to my parents and everytime I fly up I have to go through everything and see whats missing and it's just plain ridiculous .

And to top it off, I am stressed out about other OOT'ers weddings...cough cough Sheena you need a dress!!!




Your welcome. I love this thread already.


Let me know when you wanna go....I'm free whenever so I am leaving it up to you. Weekends are great because I don't have to take the baby but she is a good girl so its not a prob. either way
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by Im a Pepper

Oh, nice thread! Wish there would have been one of these when I was planning. We relocated to Philadelphia shortly before getting engaged. Good luck girls - hope everything turns out perfectly!




Yay....can you give us some tips since you survived OOT planning.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Welcome ladies!!! We are growing hoooorayyyyyyyyyyy.

meganbrandon Posted:

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yeah! Good idea to start this!!!
NYgirlinTX Posted:

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Hey guys My name is Dina & I grew up on LI with Megan FH & I met on Long Island and both work in the stock market.... Last year when the market fell hard FH got worried about the cost of living in NY and asked if I would consider living in Texas. And with coming here often and loving it I agree'd to try it.

So here I am planning a wedding from 1600 miles away, working 65+ plus hours a week, between two jobs and having a nervous break down.

Thats my story and I'm sticking to it!
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by NYgirlinTX

Hey guys My name is Dina & I grew up on LI with Megan FH & I met on Long Island and both work in the stock market.... Last year when the market fell hard FH got worried about the cost of living in NY and asked if I would consider living in Texas. And with coming here often and loving it I agree'd to try it.

So here I am planning a wedding from 1600 miles away, working 65+ plus hours a week, between two jobs and having a nervous break down.

Thats my story and I'm sticking to it!



Hey Dina,

You actualy inspired me to put this together and I'm glad I did. If you need anything we are all here I hope you don't give up and just keep on planning. Just book all your vendors and everything else will fall into place. If it is really overwhelming I would say cut out all the details that might not be necesary. In the end you are marrying the love of your life and thats all that matters.
NYgirlinTX Posted:

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Posted by princessSDG


Posted by NYgirlinTX

Hey guys My name is Dina & I grew up on LI with Megan FH & I met on Long Island and both work in the stock market.... Last year when the market fell hard FH got worried about the cost of living in NY and asked if I would consider living in Texas. And with coming here often and loving it I agree'd to try it.

So here I am planning a wedding from 1600 miles away, working 65+ plus hours a week, between two jobs and having a nervous break down.

Thats my story and I'm sticking to it!



Hey Dina,

You actualy inspired me to put this together and I'm glad I did. If you need anything we are all here I hope you don't give up and just keep on planning. Just book all your vendors and everything else will fall into place. If it is really overwhelming I would say cut out all the details that might not be necesary. In the end you are marrying the love of your life and thats all that matters.



Awww thanks!!!! At least I am inspiration somewhere out there! Uuugh i thought I was going to have a break down yesterday.

Doing better today though, TG
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by NYgirlinTX


Posted by princessSDG


Posted by NYgirlinTX

Hey guys My name is Dina & I grew up on LI with Megan FH & I met on Long Island and both work in the stock market.... Last year when the market fell hard FH got worried about the cost of living in NY and asked if I would consider living in Texas. And with coming here often and loving it I agree'd to try it.

So here I am planning a wedding from 1600 miles away, working 65+ plus hours a week, between two jobs and having a nervous break down.

Thats my story and I'm sticking to it!



Hey Dina,

You actualy inspired me to put this together and I'm glad I did. If you need anything we are all here I hope you don't give up and just keep on planning. Just book all your vendors and everything else will fall into place. If it is really overwhelming I would say cut out all the details that might not be necesary. In the end you are marrying the love of your life and thats all that matters.



Awww thanks!!!! At least I am inspiration somewhere out there! Uuugh i thought I was going to have a break down yesterday.

Doing better today though, TG




Yay...I'm so happy you are doing better today. It can be frustrating but we all will make it together.
NYgirlinTX Posted:

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Yea every day is a new struggle and a new challange... On that note, reading the 2010 board and spepaking of our 'Showers' , How are you OOT'ers handleing this?? And what are your girls planning on doing with all of this???

NYgirlinTX Posted:

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Bump this thread needs to stay on top to keep us sane! finally home after a double and 14 hours of running around like a chicken:)

MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by NYgirlinTX

Yea every day is a new struggle and a new challange... On that note, reading the 2010 board and spepaking of our 'Showers' , How are you OOT'ers handleing this?? And what are your girls planning on doing with all of this???



I was thinking maybe like a long weekend in like January or February so that FH and I can have a Jack and Jill shower. I started emailing my MOH some ideas because she is not really good with planning. I hope to get ideas from you all. I was going to have them write to send gifts to our home. It worked really well for my baby shower so we plan to do the same.
MrsDR2010 Posted:

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Posted by NYgirlinTX

Bump this thread needs to stay on top to keep us sane! finally home after a double and 14 hours of running around like a chicken:)



14hours as long as we have each other we will be ok.
elp6421 Posted:

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I think this thread is a great idea!!!!! I'm Erika - I am an OOT bride from Florida!! To add in to the mix, I'm originally from Ohio so we will have Florida people, Ohio people and ofcourse NY people at the wedding!!

Planning this has been so stress because I don't know the island at all! It is FH home. We decided to have it there because his family is quite a bit larger than mine.

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