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okay is it me or..............

Original post by laura33

if you are invited to a wedding but cannot attend do you usually send a check?? (not as much as you would give if you actually attended) but a small amount..I usually do this

what do you do???


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FutureMrsF2010 Posted:

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I would definitely send something; obviously not as much as I would if I were there for the celebration, but just something to acknowledge the wedding.

I actually work with someone who was recently married and I was not even invited to the wedding due to the fact that it was a second marriage and they were keeping it very small, yet a co-worker and I pitched in and sent him something off his registry anyway. It wasn't expensive, but even if you keep it small, I think its the thought that counts.
jonsgirl04 Posted:

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Yes I always send a check if I can not attend. Maybe not as much, but I always like to send something!
Mizzdimple Posted:

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I always send something

mrspalomino148 Posted:

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ALWAYS sent a check .. but I saw with all the no's I got, we only recieved 2 checks, which I thought was soo weird, who knows

AR31 Posted:

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always sent something.. if they have a registry, then something off the registry, if not a check w/ a greeting card..

minibride08 Posted:

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YES... which reminds me, I have to send one out tonight- LOL!

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