omg i hate her... am i overreacting?!
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omg i hate her... am i overreacting?!
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bump because i need opinions!! no one else is around! if im wrong to be mad tell me
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no i would b pissed. if you have some allegation, she should proove it. Who tells you she believes FH is cheating n then has no proof to back it up - thats a sh yt stirrer.....
psycho b!t c h
psycho b!t c h
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If she's not mature enough to tell you why she has been saying the things she is then she's not worth the aggrevation. She's just trying to create drama. If she really knew FH was cheating she would come out with the information and not just hint that she knows something. Stop wasting your time with her... she's not worth it. There is a reason no one likes her.
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oh ps... it then came out that WASNT what she meant but she knew other dirt...
come on!!!
come on!!!
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Posted by GinaRandy2010
If she's not mature enough to tell you why she has been saying the things she is then she's not worth the aggrevation. She's just trying to create drama. If she really knew FH was cheating she would come out with the information and not just hint that she knows something. Stop wasting your time with her... she's not worth it. There is a reason no one likes her.
ITA - she is trying to start drama. She seems like a toxic person and you should really just phase her out . . . you don't need that on/around your wedding and relationship with FH. Sorry you have to deal with this.
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Okay this is my opinion....
I had the same type of issue with one of my friends girlfriends. Not many people took a liking to her but I befriended her because I wanted her to feel comterable. All was fine and dandy until one day my friend and I were alone waiting for our friends. She flipped out! acted like him and I were fooling around! annyoing.....so anyway we stopped talking for awhile because things were awkward. A few weeks later she 'myspaced' me and asked if we could meet for coffee.
As much as I disliked her for accusing me of doing things I wasn't doing I met her coffee and I was civil. I did this because my friend was very important to me and I have issues with always being the better person (I know, it's annoying) butt....in the end my friend was grateful I was able to forgive and forget to keep the peace.
I don't think you are over reacting because what she did was terrible, but maybe just continue to be civil
HTH!!
I had the same type of issue with one of my friends girlfriends. Not many people took a liking to her but I befriended her because I wanted her to feel comterable. All was fine and dandy until one day my friend and I were alone waiting for our friends. She flipped out! acted like him and I were fooling around! annyoing.....so anyway we stopped talking for awhile because things were awkward. A few weeks later she 'myspaced' me and asked if we could meet for coffee.
As much as I disliked her for accusing me of doing things I wasn't doing I met her coffee and I was civil. I did this because my friend was very important to me and I have issues with always being the better person (I know, it's annoying) butt....in the end my friend was grateful I was able to forgive and forget to keep the peace.
I don't think you are over reacting because what she did was terrible, but maybe just continue to be civil
HTH!!
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As for the gym comment, that was totally unnecessary and seems like she likes attention. I don't know anything about fb, but did she write it on your wall? You should just erase it and not even acknowledge it.
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no she sounds like a b*itch...ur not overreacting
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I'm sorry you have to deal with her. She sounds like she just likes drama. Hinting around that your FH is cheating with no proof sounds like BS and is not called for. I would just try to be civil but being friends with her seems impossible. Her gym comment was also uncalled for and I would just ignore her comments. Hope it all works out.
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Dont even bother trying to be friends with her...she sounds crazy. You're mature and trying to move on with your life. You dont need that.
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eww psycho !! You should block her on fb
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stayyyyy awayyyyyyy!!!!!!!!! People like her are manipulatve (at least from the sound of it). She didnt like what she was hearing so she flips the whole situtation around on you and starts random crap. Im guessing she just wants to be liked and instead of taking the criticism she shift the focus on you and how you and your relationship is so-called not perfect. omggg runnnn lol
I would be civil like you said but seriously i would steer clear
I would be civil like you said but seriously i would steer clear
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You are definitely NOT overreacting…This girl sounds like a real troublemaker…Sorry you have to deal with this...
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She sounds pyschotic!
You are not overreacting at all!
I would stay away from her. You do not need someone like that around you or FH. I would be so livid!
You are not overreacting at all!
I would stay away from her. You do not need someone like that around you or FH. I would be so livid!
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You are not over reacting and from what I read, I think you have handled this well. Seriously I don't know how you didn't hit her. I don't think I could refrain from hitting her.
1st I would unfriend her in FB, she is not your friend and really you want to just cut her out of your life. This person is DRAMA! It also sounds like she may be a little jealous.
2nd you do not have to be friends with this women. She is your BM's girlfriend and nothing more right now. So what she lives in the same house as your FH, he won't live there after you are married. As long as you are cordial that is all that matters. I am sure you have enough friends and a spiteful witch like this women will never be your friend. Even if this women marries your BM so what, you still don't have to friends with her. Cordial that is it!
1st I would unfriend her in FB, she is not your friend and really you want to just cut her out of your life. This person is DRAMA! It also sounds like she may be a little jealous.
2nd you do not have to be friends with this women. She is your BM's girlfriend and nothing more right now. So what she lives in the same house as your FH, he won't live there after you are married. As long as you are cordial that is all that matters. I am sure you have enough friends and a spiteful witch like this women will never be your friend. Even if this women marries your BM so what, you still don't have to friends with her. Cordial that is it!
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I wouldn't really get upset over the gym comment. That's her just grasping at straws trying to find some common ground between the two of you so she can salvage just about her only 'friendship'. I can't stand people like this- she had no reason to say anything about you in the first place and then makes it out to be some big thing. One of FH's groomsmen's g/f has done the same thing to me time again. Started out when she told all of our friends how much better FH's ex was for him than I was, escalated with her coming to MY house uninvited and telling everyone she was going to punch me in the face (when I confronted her and said here's your chance, go on and hit me, she said I 'misunderstood' what she said or that she never said that at all) and ended with her crying alone on the corner of Queens Blvd. I'd just ignore her totally like you've been doing- be civil because you have NO choice, especially with FH living there, but just don't even say more than two words to her. You're only going to get yourself aggravated. Anywho, hope that helps!
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no ur not overreacting. she is crazy. she's acting that way because she's jealous and obviously has a crush on your FH. she's taking advantage of the fact that she lives with fh and bm. shes trying to be nice to you now becasue she thinks by doing so she'll look like the bigger person and then make ur FH and his bm against you. she's trying to turn the situation and make it as though u did wrong and ur the crazy one. which obviously ur not. shes just a jealous crazy b*otch who needs to stay out of everyone elses business.
I wouldn't even start anything with her. just ignore everything she sends u and be courteous when u see her. i would just say hi and thats it. i woudnt even email her back. pretend u never received it.
I wouldn't even start anything with her. just ignore everything she sends u and be courteous when u see her. i would just say hi and thats it. i woudnt even email her back. pretend u never received it.
