OMG SUCKS NOT TO HAVE FRIENDS! BP Problems AGAIN!!!

OMG OMG OMG
I hate this!!!!!
When I was a little girl I imagine a Big elegant wedding....
When i was a teenager, I Imagne my BP to be BIG becuase I thought I had so many friends...
When i was in College, I started to wonder if I woudl get myy BP as big as I though but i figure with 3 woud be good...
NOW, THAT I AM ENGAGED I AM EXTREMELY MAD SAD STRESS HURT THAT NOTHING OF MY BP WILL BE LIKE I EXPECTED/THOUGHT!!!!!!!!!!

We DONT HAVE FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHO THE FKC WILL BE IN OUR BRIDAL PARTY???

Since 2 of my XBFF are gone... i figure I only have my MOH and will get a BM later on....
My FH has a BM since his GM left him waitin on the party n never show up....
Now, NOT EVEN HIM CAN DO THE JOB OF BM!!!!!!


THIS SUCKS!!!

NOW I ONLY HAVE ONE MOH... AND FH HAS NO ONE...

I know Most of you would say
1) Well Tell him just to get another friend to do that... Well, he doesnt has friends!!!! Since he came to the USA he has been working n working a lot!!! Never had 'time' to have a Social Life... Now he is LEFT with NO ONE!!!! and I feel so bad and mad!!!!
2) Well you can just have One MOH & One BM... and I DONT WANT THAT!!! I dont want to be the ONE couple ONLY... I wanted TWO at lest and I DONT WANT TO SETTLE FOR ONE...


SUCKS TO COME TO THE USA WHEN UR A FKIN TEENAGER AND NOT GET FRIENDS>... ONLY GET COWORKERS & STUDY BYDDIES!!!!

SUCKS!!!!!

SUCKKKS!!!!!

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Posted by angelscri

Oh, no. I am so sorry this is happening. Do have have any cousins who you are close to?

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Nop....
Relatives are in El Salvador...
Mines and His...

what about family members?? aunts, uncles,cousin?



ETA: sorry i didnt see your post

will any of them be coming to the wedding from el salvador?

It will still be a beautiful wedding. He still have time gor s friendship to form. You can never tell what the future holds.

I'm sorry you are having a hard time V!

Will those cousins from El Salvador be attending the wedding?

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Posted by cMm2011



what about family members?? aunts, uncles,cousin?



ETA: sorry i didnt see your post

will any of them be coming to the wedding from el salvador?

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Nop...
No one will come.. =( they came,.. they need a visa and cant get it...

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Posted by Ray8183

It will still be a beautiful wedding. He still have time gor s friendship to form. You can never tell what the future holds.

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HOW?
How do we get friends??!!!!

We just WORK the WHOLE TIME... WE dont goo to school!!! We dont go to bars...
WHERE???

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Posted by HeatherLynna

I'm sorry you are having a hard time V!

Will those cousins from El Salvador be attending the wedding?

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Sucks...

WHY ME???

I dont udnerstand!!!
HOW THE HELL ppl lied in ur face for YEARS?!!!!!!!!!
Then U get engaged, and they are ALL GONE!!!!!!


nop, no one will b coming...

Don't despair, this is a blessing in disguise. You won't be spending a lot of $$ for your wedding and actually SAVE MONEY for really important things like the reception and vendors!

I don't have a bridal party either, FH and I came from 1 child households (neither of us have brothers/sisters). FH worked many years so he has very few close friends. His best man is a guy he hung out with a lot when he was an EMT volunteer several years ago. I only have 1 Matron of Honor and she was my godmother. I have no bridesmaids since my best friends are gay guys (what can I say, I couldn't deal with some of the drama my ex-female friends dragged me into).

I don't mind this, the only pictures you really want to stare at are the ones of you and FH after you get married anyway!

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Posted by Oct2010Bride2Be

Don't despair, this is a blessing in disguise. You won't be spending a lot of $$ for your wedding and actually SAVE MONEY for really important things like the reception and vendors!

I don't have a bridal party either, FH and I came from 1 child households (neither of us have brothers/sisters). FH worked many years so he has very few close friends. His best man is a guy he hung out with a lot when he was an EMT volunteer several years ago. I only have 1 Matron of Honor and she was my godmother. I have no bridesmaids since my best friends are gay guys (what can I say, I couldn't deal with some of the drama my ex-female friends dragged me into).

I don't mind this, the only pictures you really want to stare at are the ones of you and FH after you get married anyway!

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Thanks chica....
But see, I dont want to see my Wedding pics and See TWO COUPLES....
I know I will always stand out... But i just dont want TWO COUPLES... i will feel as if Two couples are getting married....

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by HeatherLynna

I'm sorry you are having a hard time V!

Will those cousins from El Salvador be attending the wedding?

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Sucks...

WHY ME???

I dont udnerstand!!!
HOW THE HELL ppl lied in ur face for YEARS?!!!!!!!!!
Then U get engaged, and they are ALL GONE!!!!!!


nop, no one will b coming...

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It will all work out. You really never do know what is going to happen. I know you would like to have this all settled now, but you still do have a lot of time before the wedding. Things can change. Everything happens for a reason. You will be fine mama and your pictures will be beautiful.

Oh V!

don't worry!

remember the wedding is about you and FH...not about all the hoopla and certainly not about a BP

you will be fine without it!

the wedding will still be beautiful!

and trust me sometimes youre better off without the bridal party...

sometimes all they end up causing is drama!!!!

now that fh and i are thinking of destination wedding, we are thinking about only doing MOH and Best Man

don't stress!!

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Posted by LoveyDovey

Oh V!

don't worry!

remember the wedding is about you and FH...not about all the hoopla and certainly not about a BP

you will be fine without it!

the wedding will still be beautiful!

and trust me sometimes youre better off without the bridal party...

sometimes all they end up causing is drama!!!!

now that fh and i are thinking of destination wedding, we are thinking about only doing MOH and Best Man

don't stress!!

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I dont understand....
If its not ONE THING is the Other...
Maybe I should just tell my FH to cancel this and just live togeht and get a wedding band and tell everyone we married....

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Posted by HeatherLynna

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by HeatherLynna

I'm sorry you are having a hard time V!

Will those cousins from El Salvador be attending the wedding?

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Sucks...

WHY ME???

I dont udnerstand!!!
HOW THE HELL ppl lied in ur face for YEARS?!!!!!!!!!
Then U get engaged, and they are ALL GONE!!!!!!


nop, no one will b coming...

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It will all work out. You really never do know what is going to happen. I know you would like to have this all settled now, but you still do have a lot of time before the wedding. Things can change. Everything happens for a reason. You will be fine mama and your pictures will be beautiful.

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I know Everything happen for a reasn... i just dont see the reason.... here I am crying my eyes out AGAIN for a BP problem...
Just sucks u know? THINK u have friends and then realize U dont... and Be Lonely...

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Posted by rendel

Wouldn't u rather have people who love u and care about u in ur bridal party, not just people to fill spaces? I'm sorry Veronica!!!

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I wanna have ppl who love me....
But I dont want to have TWO COUPLES... I may sound like a little kid but that is NOT wht I want.. I dont want ONE MOH and One BM... NOOO!!!

I want ppl who love me but they all left me and him!!!!

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Posted by rendel

Wouldn't u rather have people who love u and care about u in ur bridal party, not just people to fill spaces? I'm sorry Veronica!!!

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ITA! FH and I joke around all the time about how we don't have friends anymore. I think as you get older your circle gets smaller...and I'm okay with that

I want the ones we love the most at our wedding, people that will be in our lives for the rest of our lives

Good luck!!!

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Posted by mrsg2be11

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Posted by rendel

Wouldn't u rather have people who love u and care about u in ur bridal party, not just people to fill spaces? I'm sorry Veronica!!!

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ITA! FH and I joke around all the time about how we don't have friends anymore. I think as you get older your circle gets smaller...and I'm okay with that

I want the ones we love the most at our wedding, people that will be in our lives for the rest of our lives

Good luck!!!

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Yes I know...
But now there are NO BEST MAN OR GROOMS MAN AT ALL!!!!

Totally agree-I only have 1 MOH and 2 BM same for FH.....many couples are no longer having bridesmaids or groomsmen, My best friend in the world who is in my BP HATES the idea...she said it reminds her of a sweet 16...she does have plenty of friends and family..cousins, sis in law. she chose absolutely no one. Good luck.. I am sorry you feel this way.