Parent problem

Parent problem

Okay, here's my dilema. My parents divorced when I was in college and I lived w/ my mom until I moved in w/ FH. Anyway, my mom wants to walk me down the aisle along w/ my father whereas my father says no. FH says it sounds like a weird idea but I have seen it done before even in non-Jewish ceremonies. As if wedding planning isn't stressful enough Any ideas???

Re: Parent problem

My mom is by all means walking me down the aisle with my father. They divorced when I was little, and I love my dad, but if he gave me a problem about it... well the my mom would walk me down alone. Mom is too important to me not to walk me down the aisle.

Re: Parent problem

Explain to Dad that if your mom does not join you walking down the isle she basically has no part of the ceremony - and this is how you want it - end of story - this is 2002 and you can do whatever you want!

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That's what I tried explaiing to my dad. That me and him have a special dance whereas me and my mom have none. So at least she gets to join in on something!

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I've seen this done plenty of times. Go for it, your Dad will have to understand this is what you want !!!!! I'm sure it will all turn out fine.