Personal/long :Need Hugs

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 01:32 PM

Personal/long :Need Hugs

Deleted b/c you never know who's lurking. Thanks for all of the support!

groovypeg Posted: Sep 11, 2004 01:43 PM

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aw, i know how you feel. i have been thru similiar situations. we are all here for you!

goingtobemrs Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:11 PM

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I am sorry. Have you taken a test to see if you are prego? That may ease your worries.

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:13 PM

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Thanks!

I think it's too early to take a test. I'm going to wait a few more days and then take it. But if it says no, I won't really be relieved. Falso negatives are so common. I won't feel better until I get AF.

goingtobemrs Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:17 PM

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Posted by marymoon

Thanks!

I think it's too early to take a test. I'm going to wait a few more days and then take it. But if it says no, I won't really be relieved. Falso negatives are so common. I won't feel better until I get AF.

I know the feeling of being scared of that. So many things go through your head. Even with the slightest of possibilities. I hope it all works out. Don't let yourself get too overwhelmed with it all. Let FH do some of his apartment cleaning and take a break!

swags1016 Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:38 PM

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When is your AF due?

pschica Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:38 PM

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i, too at times, know how you feel.....

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:40 PM

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swags...things ahve been so crazy lately that i forget when AF is due. My best guess is the end of this week.

I think the 'incident' happenned slighlty after my o-time, a few days after physical evidence of o-time. So it's better to be after than than before, right?

KimberlyBride Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:42 PM

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So sorry you are having a rough day. I think the chance of you PG are so slim. I read the post the other day about the slippage. I think you need to have a heart to heart with FH about your feelings and what you are going through with being out of work and how upset you are that he is not appreciating all your hard work at his new place. You need to fix this now before you are married.

Kim

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 02:44 PM

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Thanks Kim. That's really good advice. i think I'm going to have to wait for this whole pg thing to blow over (as I pray that it will) when i'm more calm and then we can talk about it. Right now I'm pretty frantic and emotional (i hope it's PMS!) and he's not listening for whatever reason...

kdelace Posted: Sep 11, 2004 03:43 PM

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lots of hugs for you. i know what you say about airing dirty laundry on here but it helps talking to 'friends' on this board. sometimes I dont want to talk to my family and want to vent.. people on here have been so supportive and kind..... hang in there!!!

palebride Posted: Sep 11, 2004 04:47 PM

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i think you need to take a day just for you - relax, get a manicure, go to a spa or something and just let yourself be.....

i'm sorry your FH isn't being more supportive - he may not realize how much it is that you do for him....why not stop doing some of it so that he realizes how much he relies on you......

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:18 PM

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Thanks so much for the support. He still hasnt called. I don't really know what hes so mad at me about, but even if he is...I really think he should have called me. He's gotta know that I realy need him right now. Could he that oblivious? Or does he just not care? I've been angry with him so many times and totally put it aside because he was sick or upset or stressed out or needed me. I'm sorry..thanks so much for letting me vent.

palebride Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:21 PM

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maybe he needs so me time to himself also.....
i get the feeling that he doesn't know how much you rely on him for emotional issues.....i think you two need a good sit down talk - no screaming - no accusing....just a talk about expectations that you have for each other

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:23 PM

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Lori, if he doesn't get it after 5 years....

He used to always be there for me...not so much lately...

palebride Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:23 PM

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maybe he doesn't realize he's acting differently though...he might think he's the same that he's always been....

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:25 PM

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Yeah. I guess I need to talk to him wghen everything calms down. i've been rying to. he just gets defensive lately. *sigh*

june262004 Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:30 PM

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When I was in High School I thought I might be PG. My Boyfriend (now my DH) kept saying don't worry you are fine and if you are you are. But that didn't make me feel anybetter. My AF was really late becasue I was so stressed and kept thinkin I was PG that it never came. Don't worry everything will work out.

Many to you.

marymoon Posted: Sep 11, 2004 05:32 PM

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Thanks Kristin! I guess the guys don't really know what it's like for us since it's not their body! Either that or they feel invincible or something. Thanks for the hugs. It's good 2 know someone else has been there too.