please cheer me up-with update

yea, but regardless of how it started its how it finished thats scaring me now. FH would have called by now

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Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006

yea, but regardless of how it started its how it finished thats scaring me now. FH would have called by now

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call him..does he have a cell phone? call him on that....take some control here,girl.

thats why i said the cell, i wouldn't want to call his house either.

sorry, hang in there

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Posted by EmberLynn

Honey, if he really loves you he will stand up to them all and stick by your side. If he doesn't, then he isnt' worth even your tears! You see a man takes a wife, he is now a man and can't have his parents and sibblings run his life. And you don't a huge wedding to be man and wife, and heck if she cancelled the hall, then look at it as good now you don't have to invite her or any of her guest. Again lets see if your FH is ready to be a man and stand up for you! Have strength. I know its hard, but be stronge. You deserve to be treated with respect and if they can't treat you with it and he doesn't stand up for you, then he is not mature enough to be married.

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thanks, right now its just really bad, because i havent heard from him which is making me feel even more stressed.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006

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Posted by EmberLynn

Honey, if he really loves you he will stand up to them all and stick by your side. If he doesn't, then he isnt' worth even your tears! You see a man takes a wife, he is now a man and can't have his parents and sibblings run his life. And you don't a huge wedding to be man and wife, and heck if she cancelled the hall, then look at it as good now you don't have to invite her or any of her guest. Again lets see if your FH is ready to be a man and stand up for you! Have strength. I know its hard, but be stronge. You deserve to be treated with respect and if they can't treat you with it and he doesn't stand up for you, then he is not mature enough to be married.

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thanks, right now its just really bad, because i havent heard from him which is making me feel even more stressed.

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Trust me I know. Its the most painful feeling you never thought you could have. Its in your gut and chest and all you want to do is cuddle next to him and for him to tell you its going to work out. I know that feeling, VERY well! Hang in there and if you need to FM. I've been there. I really wish you the best!

the more hours that pass, the worse i'm feeling and its getting to the point where my stomach feels worse and worse.

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Posted by Soon2BeMrs2006

the more hours that pass, the worse i'm feeling and its getting to the point where my stomach feels worse and worse.

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ohh, i hate that feeling. take a walk, that may help.

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Posted by EmberLynn

Get off this site and do something. Right now you are talking to brides and are surrounded by wedidng things. Put on some shorts and have a nice jog. You'll feel better and it will clear your head. Trust me. get outside and get some air.

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Great advice. Shes right. Clear your head so you do not say or do anything you will regret.

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Posted by KarAnthony

It may be just me, but I would get back on the train and go back to his house. I would need to talk to my FH and have answers. I can't stand waiting and being in a fight.

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I agree. You dont have to talk to your FMIL but you DEFINATELY have the right to talk to your FH!!!! GO back there and talk to him!!!!

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Posted by MrsStefan

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Posted by KarAnthony

It may be just me, but I would get back on the train and go back to his house. I would need to talk to my FH and have answers. I can't stand waiting and being in a fight.

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I agree. You dont have to talk to your FMIL but you DEFINATELY have the right to talk to your FH!!!! GO back there and talk to him!!!!

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Actually I would try to wait. Hear me out. If he isn't there right now chewing his mother and brother out, he doesn't deserve her.

I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time....be strong, you deservre to be treated well. No one should treat you like that! FH needs to tell your FMIL to butt out of your lives.

Oh, I'm so sorry But your FH may be just as upset over this as you are, and maybe he just needs some time to either cool off, or tell his mother to stay the hell out of his business. How did he sound when he told you his mother was calling it off. Did he sound furious with his mom, or did he sound like he agreed with her?