PLEASE HELP- BATCHLORE PARTY HELL STORY!

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Posted by Sweeteey51

Seems like alot of drama but in reality no ones life is drama free. everything cant always be rainbows and love. Real things happen to real people and even if the story is fake there are people really going through this. Its a breath of fresh air to hear some reality on this site rather than i love my fh all the time and he does no wrong. Thats just not realistic.

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Sweeteey you said it BEST. i completely agree.

LEAVE HIM! well at least thats what i would do ......
#1- he lied about having it in the first place, why would he lie?
#2- i have been to male bachelor parties with strippers, birthday parties with strippers, female strip clubs & i know women who have been strippers before....why the hell are they showering? i have never seen this, and yes extra stuff does go on for the right price (everyone knows this)
#3- MOST LIKELY it is a girlfriend or wife of a guy that was there, and her boyfriend-husband told her what happened and shes giving you the heads up........theres things FH's friends have done that i know about, but i dont go and tell their girlfriends because it isnt my place, but some girls want to warn others, i guess since youre marrying him soon.

i would sit him down and talk, but def. believe the emailing and phone call person

I just read this whole thread, my first thoughts were , but if this is serious then you need to talk to your FH about this. To me its no problem having strippers at a BP, but to take a shower with them and lie about it, and who knows what else he lied about thats messed up.

Also friends can be jealous and manipulative so maybe that call and email is bogus.

Assuming this thread is true....

1) He lied to you because he knew you would get mad.
2) your brothers were no invited b.c FH did not want them there
3) he probably did get his d i ck suc ked. And for that he is a dirty piece of s h i t.
4) He also probably showered w. her as well. They both put whip cream all over each other and after getting he a d... well... a shower was necessary.

Men are f u ck ing as sholes. They will cheat 20 years down the line if they feel the need to. And these strippers are a bunch of s luts who do anything for the right amount of $$$.

Right now you have to decide
will you cancel the wedding or no.

If you dont want to cancel the wedding, then dont ask any more questions and marry the jerk, forget it ever happened or lie to yourself to think that its all a lie. (and of course enjoy your free di c k pass because you def. earned it )

But... if you would cancel the wedding, then get to the bottom of it and leave his a s s.

In any event, this situation *****. It's a no win situation. sorry it happened to you. I would much rather have FH get hit by a truck and die then have to deal with a story like this. Anyway... good luck,

no updates and i guess the wedding is tomorrow.. if it was true, i hope it all worked out

If this isn't true...it would be a good Hills story line

If it was true, I sure do hope all worked out.

Well, I hope this all works out - it really $ucks when you feel that lack of trust

On another note, yes there are some people out there that are malicious enough to make stories up. Case in point - a girl that I used to be friendly with (FH thought she was a closer friend than she was) told him one night that during the first couple of months that we were dating that I was actually $crewing some other guy!!! He called me up screaming and I was like 'HAHA very funny' since it was completely NOT TRUE! He realized the next day that the things she said didn't really make sense and that night she was also telling him 'we'll get thru this together...' So she obv was just trying to steal him - beyotch :-P But it just goes to show, you never know how terrible people can be when they are jealous.

Good luck to you

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Posted by Celeste617

Well, I hope this all works out - it really $ucks when you feel that lack of trust

On another note, yes there are some people out there that are malicious enough to make stories up. Case in point - a girl that I used to be friendly with (FH thought she was a closer friend than she was) told him one night that during the first couple of months that we were dating that I was actually $crewing some other guy!!! He called me up screaming and I was like 'HAHA very funny' since it was completely NOT TRUE! He realized the next day that the things she said didn't really make sense and that night she was also telling him 'we'll get thru this together...' So she obv was just trying to steal him - beyotch :-P But it just goes to show, you never know how terrible people can be when they are jealous.

Good luck to you

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thats true!! girls DO make things up
BUT why did he lie about having it in the first place? and WHY IS A STRIPPER taking a shower there?? AND why werent the brothers invited? theres too many and, what, ifs, buts in this story lol

Hi girls,
I have been reading this for a few days now. It is now becoming almost silly since we have not heard for her in how long? I don't think anyone should really reply to this nonsense anymore. It is once thing if she was replying, but she isn't and hasn't for a while. We should all be done with this.

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Posted by pal

Hi girls,
I have been reading this for a few days now. It is now becoming almost silly since we have not heard for her in how long? I don't think anyone should really reply to this nonsense anymore. It is once thing if she was replying, but she isn't and hasn't for a while. We should all be done with this.

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Posted by pal

Hi girls,
I have been reading this for a few days now. It is now becoming almost silly since we have not heard for her in how long? I don't think anyone should really reply to this nonsense anymore. It is once thing if she was replying, but she isn't and hasn't for a while. We should all be done with this.

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I'm guessing the reason why she is not responding is because tomorrow is her wedding day and I'm sure she is busy and probably doesn't have time to answer or may not want to since it might cause extra stress. Why is everyone being so mean? I thought this board was to help each other out. We all might need help one day and we shouldn't be afraid to ask for it. Why can't we all just get along!

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Posted by brideinstride

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Posted by pal

Hi girls,
I have been reading this for a few days now. It is now becoming almost silly since we have not heard for her in how long? I don't think anyone should really reply to this nonsense anymore. It is once thing if she was replying, but she isn't and hasn't for a while. We should all be done with this.

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I'm guessing the reason why she is not responding is because tomorrow is her wedding day and I'm sure she is busy and probably doesn't have time to answer or may not want to since it might cause extra stress. Why is everyone being so mean? I thought this board was to help each other out. We all might need help one day and we shouldn't be afraid to ask for it. Why can't we all just get along!

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We are not being mean, but there have been things on this board that have made us suspicious. This is one of those times. Especially since we haven't heard back.

all i have to say is..



threads like this help with my boredom