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Please tell me I'm not the only one

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

Please tell me I'm not the only one

I just want this wedding to be over already..im under so much stress and i find myself getting aggravated over little things..Im really on edge lately and i've never felt like this during the whole planning process until now..please tell me I'm not the only cranky one??!

davenjess Posted:

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everyone hits that point where they just want it to be over!!!!

you are VERY not alone hon!

Rejjie Posted:

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I am beyond that point...I'm in a daze - I can't even speak coherently! We can do it!!!!

SB7308 Posted:

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I am with you!!!!! I just want the planning, drama, stress to be overrrr!!
I cant wait for and to sit on the beach allllll day and not have any cares in the world!!!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Rejjie

I am beyond that point...I'm in a daze - I can't even speak coherently! We can do it!!!!



I don't know what it is..everything gets me annoyed..even the fact that i could only fit 10 characters in my wedding band (see other post)
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by SB7308

I am with you!!!!! I just want the planning, drama, stress to be overrrr!!
I cant wait for and to sit on the beach allllll day and not have any cares in the world!!!



thats how I feel..i can't take all of the running around either..i just want to relax.and the drama with the bp and everything else is wearing me thin
cherish83 Posted:

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I wish it were over too... I just want to be on the honeymoon!
KK Holiday Posted:

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i'm so at that point! i just want to be on the HM already!!!!
Gigi08 Posted:

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You're not alone. Especially that you are getting close. I think I've been very calm throughout most of the planning, and I've been really nervous lately. I feel like I'm running out of time.

ETA: Try and give yourself a break from things. Everything will fall into place. The news of your FH losing his job is added pressure too. I'm soo looking forward to the honeymoon.
Espo22 Posted:

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i had definitely hit that point quite a few times lol. When you have a long engagement i think its only normal and it does happen. Especially since we do have other things going on in our lives and other stresses and then to have the wedding to plan too can become overwhelming. It will all be fine though
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Gigi08

You're not alone. Especially that you are getting close. I think I've been very calm throughout most of the planning, and I've been really nervous lately. I feel like I'm running out of time.

ETA: Try and give yourself a break from things. Everything will fall into place. The news of your FH losing his job is added pressure too. I'm soo looking forward to the honeymoon.


I've tried..but i have so much to do..that i feel like i can't take a break or i won't get it all done..and yes when fh lost his job..that definately didn't help my stress either
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

i had definitely hit that point quite a few times lol. When you have a long engagement i think its only normal and it does happen. Especially since we do have other things going on in our lives and other stresses and then to have the wedding to plan too can become overwhelming. It will all be fine though



thanks..i wish I had a much shorter engagement sometimes..this is ridiculous..ive been engaged since july of 2006..so that in itself is frustrating..especially when your watching others who got engaged after you..walk down the isle before you
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by Bride 2 Be


Posted by Gigi08

You're not alone. Especially that you are getting close. I think I've been very calm throughout most of the planning, and I've been really nervous lately. I feel like I'm running out of time.

ETA: Try and give yourself a break from things. Everything will fall into place. The news of your FH losing his job is added pressure too. I'm soo looking forward to the honeymoon.


I've tried..but i have so much to do..that i feel like i can't take a break or i won't get it all done..and yes when fh lost his job..that definately didn't help my stress either



Try and prioritize what you have left to do. Start with what MUST be done. There are things that would be nice touches to add, but as it gets closer, if I just don't have the time or money, I am not going to make myself crazy and stressed to try and get them done. Your wedding will still be beautiful if you can't get to things like that. You're going to make such a beautiful bride!
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by Bride 2 Be


Posted by Espo22

i had definitely hit that point quite a few times lol. When you have a long engagement i think its only normal and it does happen. Especially since we do have other things going on in our lives and other stresses and then to have the wedding to plan too can become overwhelming. It will all be fine though



thanks..i wish I had a much shorter engagement sometimes..this is ridiculous..ive been engaged since july of 2006..so that in itself is frustrating..especially when your watching others who got engaged after you..walk down the isle before you



Aw, try not to think of it that way. You may be engaged longer, but you and your FH already have a house...that's a huge accomplishment and something that you should both be proud of. You're young, if a longer engagement resulted in you owning your home, it was worth it!
ant090608 Posted:

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The only thing that keeps me going is knowing that I will be on my hm soon!

MrsJ08 Posted:

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Now I know why people hire a wedding planner and why brides are called bridezilla's ... I just had a blow up with FH this morning...if its not one thing its another thing, never ending. It was fun in the beginning but now its sooo tedious I can wait for this day to come !!!



<---- need a glass of wine BAD!!
rahana316 Posted:

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Wow. ESP. Today I'm like that. I just want to run away to an island by myself filled with endless pasta, and ice cream and chocolate and a massue.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Bride 2 Be


Posted by Espo22

i had definitely hit that point quite a few times lol. When you have a long engagement i think its only normal and it does happen. Especially since we do have other things going on in our lives and other stresses and then to have the wedding to plan too can become overwhelming. It will all be fine though



thanks..i wish I had a much shorter engagement sometimes..this is ridiculous..ive been engaged since july of 2006..so that in itself is frustrating..especially when your watching others who got engaged after you..walk down the isle before you



yeah after a while it was like OMG ive been engaged for almost 2 years and how the H E L L do i still have SOOOOOOO much left to do. I was so tired of my to do list and it was never ending. I was up until the night before until late doing things, infact i went to JT at 10:30pm the night before my wedding to drop off many things. The morning when i woke up though i was so calm and relaxed and felt good that i had nothing left to do. Time will fly by now and your day will be here soon.
SparkyandAng Posted:

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I'm actually the opposite for some reason....I'm enjoying the planning now but hated it up until now. I did the big stuff and then wanted no part of it. i do feel like the to do list is never ending.

You bought a house, moved, and are planning a wedding all at the same time...anyone would feel stressed.

Your day will come and all the stress will be gone and you'll only feel happiness.
Gigi08 Posted:

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Posted by rahana316

Wow. ESP. Today I'm like that. I just want to run away to an island by myself filled with endless pasta, and ice cream and chocolate and a massue.



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