prenup??

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

One of the main reasons for our prenup is FH's business. He doesnt have any partners though.
He started this business way before he met me, when he was just a young child. So i understand his right to protect what he built up, a million dollar company. If i were to leave him, i shouldnt be entitled to that.

Now if he leaves me for a young hot blonde, thats another story, I am definately going to put in my agreement that if he cheats on me, etc, i will be entitled to a certain amount of money since i was accustomed to a lifestyle.

His family also has alot of money, wich he will inherit, and property etc.
If we stay together forever we will enjoy all this, but he has to protect his family money god forbid we get divorced.

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This is the reason we will do a prenup. My parents have alot and I will inherit that and all of the properties. One of wich my father built himself. I don't think that something that has been in my family fo rmany years should be just handed over to him cause were gettin gdivorced. it has menaing to me and my family and I would hate to see him get it and sell it and make money off of it, just out of spite. he agrees. he always says that he would never do that cause that is mine. but you never know what will happen when you are going through a messy divorce.

Kerry,

That is the smart thing to do, alot of people dont realize they will get inheritence. i know my mother didnt and back then houses were so cheap, who knew it would sell for that much.
my mother is an only child and was the sole heir.
Its really crazy how after time real estate, goes up in value.

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

so heres a weird question..but im wondering..what are everyones thoughts on a pre nup??

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eesh rough subject in my ouse right now ! lol
he wants one ...but i think he's just busting chops

ive got squat
hes got squat
well have squat together.

lol neither of us have anything, we're in our mid-twenties. so a prenup is pointless. i might feel differently if FH or I came into the relationship with lots of property or a business or family money.

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Posted by TheFutureMrsM

One of the main reasons for our prenup is FH's business. He doesnt have any partners though.
He started this business way before he met me, when he was just a young child. So i understand his right to protect what he built up, a million dollar company. If i were to leave him, i shouldnt be entitled to that.

Now if he leaves me for a young hot blonde, thats another story, I am definately going to put in my agreement that if he cheats on me, etc, i will be entitled to a certain amount of money since i was accustomed to a lifestyle.

His family also has alot of money, wich he will inherit, and property etc.
If we stay together forever we will enjoy all this, but he has to protect his family money god forbid we get divorced.

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Nicole, we're alike again in this situation, altho, my FH works for his family. He's 3rd generation and it's multi-million dollar business.

It was suggested, that I sign a pre-nup. FH is aganist it, he doesn't want to enter marriage assuming failure. I know that I will ultimitly have to sign a pre-nup since the decission goes beyond he & I.

So I want many clauses where, if he cheats, trades me in for a younger model, or anything negitive I get a certin percentage, since I too would be accustimed to a certin lifestyle.

Altho, If I leave just to leave I would get nothing.

This was only brought up a few times and I have no idea how FIL's will feel about my desired clauses...

I will be entering the marriage w/ nothing tho.

including debt, my student loans will be paid off by 6/08. So we will both be entering w/o debt, we already have joint assets

ehhh..i dunno

i sure hope britney spears made kfed sign a pre-nup cause he's going to milk her for everthing's she's worth white trash! uhh!