Posted by VickiR510
OH NO! That stinks. I would definitely change the church. Its to long of a span in between. But may i ask does the church have to be in Roslyn? Because if you can swing it why not get married in Long Beach St. Ignatius Church (my church growing up) its a beautiful church & its not far from your RH. Just a thought.![]()
Posted by pandafish519
SOOOO... i work for the church and know that:
some parishes DO NOT take kindly to people who are not members getting married there, especially to do it with an outside priest. you need to be very careful about how you present that to a priest. if he is an 'old school' priest, he will give you a hard time about why you want to get married in his church. Talk to your priest and see if there is any that he knows of that wouldn't be a problem.
it sounds silly but priests can be very hard about why you are getting married in their church. its important that you make sure they don't know its because of a time issue. HTH
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Posted by JamieAnt06202009
I don;t know of any other churches int he are but I do think it's a really big time gap. Your photographer will probably want you ready 2 hours before the church to take pictures of you getting ready and you and your family at your house which means you would have to be ready by 8:30a.m. I think if he is willing to marry you at another church than u should def go for that. What about your parish, where is it located?
My parish is in Smithtown. I love it and it has been such a huge part of my life... I pretty much grew up there b/c that where I attended school. But ever since my Grandmothers funeral I just cant walk down that aisle. It makes me to sad.
Were you planning on getting married at St. Patrick's in Smithtown? If so, I'm getting married at St. Patrick's in Bay Shore (I'm originally from the Smithtown Parish), the chruch is beautiful and they have so many Saturday times, I know it's far from the Roslyn area but it may be worth looking into. We also looked into St. Patricks in Glen Cove which was also GORGEOUS but we live in Bay Shore and are part of the Bay Shore parrish now. If you want info on the Glen Cove St. Patrick's FM me.
Posted by BarbieGrl10
Posted by pandafish519
SOOOO... i work for the church and know that:
some parishes DO NOT take kindly to people who are not members getting married there, especially to do it with an outside priest. you need to be very careful about how you present that to a priest. if he is an 'old school' priest, he will give you a hard time about why you want to get married in his church. Talk to your priest and see if there is any that he knows of that wouldn't be a problem.
it sounds silly but priests can be very hard about why you are getting married in their church. its important that you make sure they don't know its because of a time issue. HTH
Exactly... I'm affraid of this!
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Posted by JamieAnt06202009
I don;t know of any other churches int he are but I do think it's a really big time gap. Your photographer will probably want you ready 2 hours before the church to take pictures of you getting ready and you and your family at your house which means you would have to be ready by 8:30a.m. I think if he is willing to marry you at another church than u should def go for that. What about your parish, where is it located?
My parish is in Smithtown. I love it and it has been such a huge part of my life... I pretty much grew up there b/c that where I attended school. But ever since my Grandmothers funeral I just cant walk down that aisle. It makes me to sad.
Were you planning on getting married at St. Patrick's in Smithtown? If so, I'm getting married at St. Patrick's in Bay Shore (I'm originally from the Smithtown Parish), the chruch is beautiful and they have so many Saturday times, I know it's far from the Roslyn area but it may be worth looking into. We also looked into St. Patricks in Glen Cove which was also GORGEOUS but we live in Bay Shore and are part of the Bay Shore parrish now. If you want info on the Glen Cove St. Patrick's FM me.
Yes, St. Patricks in Smithtown is my parish. I'm going to FM you for the Garden City info. On the positive.. I will need a new parish when I move to Roslyn with FH so I think maybe I could use that as well?
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That's a really long day. You need your hair and makeup to last all day!! haha!! I would say to see if another church has the time slot available.
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Posted by VickiR510
OH NO! That stinks. I would definitely change the church. Its to long of a span in between. But may i ask does the church have to be in Roslyn? Because if you can swing it why not get married in Long Beach St. Ignatius Church (my church growing up) its a beautiful church & its not far from your RH. Just a thought.![]()
The Church does not haveee to be in Roslyn.... the reason why I'm saying that area is b/c I want my pics at Planting Fields. So I'm trying to kill two birds with one stone.... ya know?
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I don't know of any churches in Roslyn but I do agree and think that is a really big time gap. Good luck!
I think that is too long of a gap. First of all, you would have to wake up really early to be ready by 10:30am and by 8:00pm you will be so tired. Second, your out of town guests will have to find somewhere to go in the meantime. I would definitely try to get a later time.
St. Agnes is REALLY strict when it comes to ceremony times, I wanted 330 and they told me it was out of the question, if you can find a church that's more accommodating, I say go for and see what you can do.
Posted by jennaandguy09
St. Agnes is REALLY strict when it comes to ceremony times, I wanted 330 and they told me it was out of the question, if you can find a church that's more accommodating, I say go for and see what you can do.
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Posted by jennaandguy09
St. Agnes is REALLY strict when it comes to ceremony times, I wanted 330 and they told me it was out of the question, if you can find a church that's more accommodating, I say go for and see what you can do.
Yea!!!!!!! They said they only do weddings at 10:30am 12:30pm and 2:30pm.
So I asked about later like 4 or 6 and they said no b/c thats when people go for confession.
They do late ones on Friday though... I think 5:30 or 6pm.![]()
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Posted by jennaandguy09
St. Agnes is REALLY strict when it comes to ceremony times, I wanted 330 and they told me it was out of the question, if you can find a church that's more accommodating, I say go for and see what you can do.
Yea!!!!!!! They said they only do weddings at 10:30am 12:30pm and 2:30pm.
So I asked about later like 4 or 6 and they said no b/c thats when people go for confession.
They do late ones on Friday though... I think 5:30 or 6pm.![]()
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They never even told me that I asked how about after confession and they said it was out of the question!!!!!!! GRRRRRR
wow thats a tough one..imo i think thats a toobig time gap so i would say try to go for another church and if even at first they look at u strange for bringing in another preist by the wedding all will be as usual and it wont even be a big deal..now if u cant find another church then try to do something in between like a mini reception maybe at a house or something to kill the time..hth and good luck
worse case scenerio... can you get married at your rh with your priest?
Posted by azailia
worse case scenerio... can you get married at your rh with your priest?
