SO since the guest list got a bit outta contral FH and I were talking about canceling the HM if we just postpone it we wpnt be able to tak it until net spring!! We have $400 down on it right now that we will lose by canceling. We have to ay it off by the end of the month we didnt book airfare yet...with the airfare we still owe 3K I am sooooooooooooo upset i was really looking forward to it! FH doesnt think we should take the chance of paying for it and then get more YES RSVPS than we thought, and have to come up with another 2-3K to pay for the seats at the RH!!! ALSO if we postpone it we will be paying double cause we booked suring the 50% off promo!!! ugh!!!!!!!!!! we are gonna make our decision in the next few weeks but i am soooooo bumed out right now. Nothing like being sick and sad at the same time i need a hug!
Thanks for listening.
MeaganAndJoeC
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im sorry, It will all work out!
shoegal68
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so sorry u are going through this... its a tough decision .
anyway here is hug for you
angl2001
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Thanks
JeanetteandSteve
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i'm sorry heather!! i hope you don't have to cancel but even if you do, it will be fine! sandals runs deals all the time...and the travel agent i used works mainly w sandals and could probably tell you when they will be running one again and what would be the best time to re-book.
don't worry, it will all work out...and if you have to wait, then you'll have something to look forward to after the wedding!
angl2001
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Thanks Jeanette! but i was soooooooo looking forward to our SPA day lol
mRm2008
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hun I am sorry
missK
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I hope you can work it out where you can do both.. Do you think you will make that up from the wedding presents?
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So sorry to hear this. I really ope things work out for you!
angl2001
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Posted by missK
I hope you can work it out where you can do both.. Do you think you will make that up from the wedding presents?
we took out a loan to pay off the wedding....all out presents go right back to the bank
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maybe you can book the HM on a creditcard with those 0% apr for one year? thats my plan! In any case, i hope it works out for u guys that u do go away!
Fall Bride 2008
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AW I AM SO SORRY IS THERE ANYWAY THAT YOU CAN GO A LITTLE LOW KEY ON THE HONEYMOON SO YOU DONT LOOSE THAT MONEY :(
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Posted by blaine08
maybe you can book the HM on a creditcard with those 0% apr for one year? thats my plan! In any case, i hope it works out for u guys that u do go away!
FH said no CC plus we wouldnt get approved for a card with thet much $$ on it
xXxNovember08xXx
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heather if you cancel there are PLENTY of places near here to just get away that are decent.. i can look into places if you like.
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Sorry to hear this, BUT you will hopefully get gifts $ gifts from your wedding guests, right? That money should help offset some the cost of the wedding/honeymoon.
Also, is there anyone you can borrow the money from to pay for the honeymmon and pay back later, like your parents, siblings or other family members?
Finally, some credit cards have a 0% balance transfer or very low interest rate for a few months...could you pay for the honeymoon with that type of a card and not have to worry about it for a while?
Good luck!
angl2001
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AW I AM SO SORRY IS THERE ANYWAY THAT YOU CAN GO A LITTLE LOW KEY ON THE HONEYMOON SO YOU DONT LOOSE THAT MONEY :(
we booked sandals st lucia it all inclusive....so not really...the $400 hold is non refundable if canceled
kimandvin
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aww im sorry.. can you borrow the money from someone and pay them back once the wedding is over wtih some of your gift money?
angl2001
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aww im sorry.. can you borrow the money from someone and pay them back once the wedding is over wtih some of your gift money?
nope we have to pay back our loan
Fall Bride 2008
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AW I AM SO SORRY IS THERE ANYWAY THAT YOU CAN GO A LITTLE LOW KEY ON THE HONEYMOON SO YOU DONT LOOSE THAT MONEY :(
we booked sandals st lucia it all inclusive....so not really...the $400 hold is non refundable if canceled
I AM SO SORRY SWEETIE IT WILL ALL WORK OUT ...IT USUALLY DOES I WILL SEND PRAYERS YOUR WAY
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can you change it to a shorter amount of time... even 4 days 3 nights??
