SO since the guest list got a bit outta contral FH and I were talking about canceling the HM if we just postpone it we wpnt be able to tak it until net spring!! We have $400 down on it right now that we will lose by canceling. We have to ay it off by the end of the month we didnt book airfare yet...with the airfare we still owe 3K I am sooooooooooooo upset i was really looking forward to it! FH doesnt think we should take the chance of paying for it and then get more YES RSVPS than we thought, and have to come up with another 2-3K to pay for the seats at the RH!!! ALSO if we postpone it we will be paying double cause we booked suring the 50% off promo!!! ugh!!!!!!!!!! we are gonna make our decision in the next few weeks but i am soooooo bumed out right now. Nothing like being sick and sad at the same time i need a hug!
Thanks for listening.
bluegreen08
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Posted by angl2001
Posted by MayWeddingGrl
sorry this is happening. Do you think if you charged the HM now, that the monetary gifts the guests will give will be able to cover the HM on your credit cards?
refuse to used CCs and everythign we get from gifts is going right back to the bank to pay off the LOAN we took out for the wedding cause i refused to move our wedding date again! ( we moved it 2 times already)
when is the loan due? can you pay it off 2 months after the wedding instead of the day of the wedding?
also, if you registered at BBB you can return those gifts for cash
megzzie
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I'm so sorry you're going through this - I hope you don't have to cancel!
mrspalomino148
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aww im so sorry heather! I hope you won't have to postpone, but even if you do, your going to have such an amazing time no matter when you go, and I heard they run those sales quite often!
angl2001
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Posted by bluegreen08
Posted by angl2001
Posted by MayWeddingGrl
sorry this is happening. Do you think if you charged the HM now, that the monetary gifts the guests will give will be able to cover the HM on your credit cards?
refuse to used CCs and everythign we get from gifts is going right back to the bank to pay off the LOAN we took out for the wedding cause i refused to move our wedding date again! ( we moved it 2 times already)
when is the loan due? can you pay it off 2 months after the wedding instead of the day of the wedding?
also, if you registered at BBB you can return those gifts for cash
yeah we will see....FH wants the loan paid off right away that was the deal we made when we decided i threw the loan idea out there and he said fine but all the $$ from gifts has to go right to the loan....we have 5 ytears to pay it back but he doesnt wanna get hit with the interest...... we have 3 weeks to decide hopefully something wonderful will happen by then!
beachprincess
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We really cannot afford our Honeymoon, so we are registering for it instead. That way our guests will pay for half to all of it. We do have to put it on our credit card, cause we have to pay for the trip a month before, but we should get the money to pay it off right after the wedding. Just a thought.
tlp123
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Sorry to hear about this. I know its depressing. We had to postpone our honeymoon too, but that was b/c we both got very sick right after the wedding. I hope it works out for you.
angl2001
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Posted by tlp123
Sorry to hear about this. I know its depressing. We had to postpone our honeymoon too, but that was b/c we both got very sick right after the wedding. I hope it works out for you.
awww i hope you get to do something anyway!!
if my shower invites didnt go out yet maybe my MOH will think to add in the HM registry
