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Q of the D

Toucan311 Posted:

Q of the D

I don't think we've had one in a few days!

If and when you have children, what will your work situation be? Stay home? Work at home? Continue to work and use daycare/family member?
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Idealy, I would stay home while FH worked... If we were to have children tomorrow, that would NOT happen... but since we want to wait a few years, who knows what our situation will be.

ttw910 Posted:

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I would like to be able to stay at home, at least until they got a little older. I guess it will just depend on the money situation at the time. One thing is certain, I will not be lugging my booty into the city to work when I have kids, I would not want to be that far away.

jennandrolo Posted:

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I would like to stay home but we'll see what our situation is then.

snwb08 Posted:

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not staying home. hoping to cut down to a 4 day week or at least work from home 1-2 days. Might try to find a job in LI so i don't have to commute to the city every day, but we'll see.

hopefully FMIL and my sister will be able to watch the kid.
Kerin2804 Posted:

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In a perfect world I would be able to stay at home to take care of our children. It will all depend upon our financial situation when that time arrives. Chances are I will be working.

Maria31 Posted:

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I would definitely like to stay home with the kids until they are old enough for school. This would all depend on our financial situation. We don't plan to have children for a few years, so we have some time.

Bride908 Posted:

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I would really like to stay home and raise my children while they are not in school. Unfortunately if that happens soon...I will be a working mother.

kristin597 Posted:

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FH owns his own business and I work for him, so ideally I would like to take sometime off in the beginning and then segue back into work by starting off working at home first.

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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hopefully stay home until kids are in school - then work PT.

yelley77 Posted:

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IDEALLY, I'd like to stay home, but we can't do that now, especially living on LI. We've talked about moving to maryland... The only reason I'm even thinking about it is bc it will give me the chance to stay home with my babies.

Dee0522 Posted:

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I would love to take some time off and then ideally find a job where I could work from home a few days a week.

SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted:

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If I win the lotto, I'll be at home, other than that....I'll be working
KarinAmanda Posted:

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i would love to stay home with them while FH works... that would be ideal for me, at least until they are school age.

if we were to have kids now, we would most likely have our parents watch them during work hours. there is NO way we could afford children and a home on 1 salary at this point
Future Mulligan Posted:

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ideally stay at home for the first 3 months than go back to work maybe 3 times a week but only for like 5 hours each day - just to get out of the house, see adults, have conversations, keep me sane also it would give me a reason to look nice - i can easily see turning into a frump if you are at home all day and have no place to go hahahaha
failurebydsign Posted:

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il be staying home and continue to do a few clients on the side if i feel like it

anneandchris Posted:

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Like most girls on here ideally I would love to be a Stay at Home Mom. Realistically this might not happen (at least not for the first one).

So my second ideal situation is to only have to work part time (3 days a week) and have a sitter come to the house. FH works from home so there is some flexiblity but he needs uninterupted time to work and has to stick to a work schedule not always the babies schedule.

Browneyesncute Posted:

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i would like to bump my work down to part time

jaep129 Posted:

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We will both work and put the kids in daycare. I am a teacher so I will have summers with them!

ant n tilde Posted:

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i would LOVE to stay home but its just not financially possible

my mother said she would watch my kids so she will do that and there is also an awesome daycare in my building at work but its expensive. . .

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