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cj52514 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 09:23 AM+
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Good morning ladies! Today's QOTD is for worriers like me.

What is your biggest fear about your wedding day?

Even though I still have a little less than a year and a half to go and didn't even send out STDs yet, I'm worried that I won't make my 150 minimum. I have a lot of OOT guests and family and I'm worried that not only will I not make the minimum, but I'm stressing that my reception will be practically empty! LOL (Told you I'm a worrier!)

I can already tell that I'm 100% going to be a mailbox stalker when I send out invitations!
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RoandJoe Posted: Jan 24, 2013 09:26 AM+
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My biggest fear is that no one is going to dance!! I'm also terrified of having a severe anxiety attack since I'm prone to them.
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Alyssa M Posted: Jan 24, 2013 09:32 AM+
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I have a fear of no one dancing too! But I'm also afraid of my straps on my dress breaking. No idea why, but I have nightmares about it!
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cj52514 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 09:34 AM+
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Posted by RoandJoe

My biggest fear is that no one is going to dance!! I'm also terrified of having a severe anxiety attack since I'm prone to them.



Ahhh this is a good one too! Maybe this QOTD was a bad idea lol What makes me feel a little better about this is that people will likely be hitting the bar at cocktail hour. Tipsy people like to dance!
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LadyReeRee Posted: Jan 24, 2013 09:56 AM+
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My biggest fear is that I have a stomach virus, a pimple, or a blizzard!
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Soon2BeMrsMango Posted: Jan 24, 2013 10:20 AM+
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I am worried about rain and my allergies acting up. Those are my two biggest fears!
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katielynn Posted: Jan 24, 2013 10:26 AM+
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So... my biggest fear is this:

I have a friend planning her wedding 3-6 weeks before mine (don't even get me started on that..) and I'm really worried she's going to take my ideas and then its going to look like I copied her.


petty right? I can't help it. She always takes the spot light and is making me feel guilty that I 'took' December (even though I was engaged first) because she always wanted a winter wedding.
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Lori0413 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:01 AM+
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Oh wow, where do I begin???

1. Stomach virus or a pimple, as somebody already posted
2. Rain (even drizzle is *somewhat* tolerable, but I'm afraid of a torrential downpour)
3. Being late for anything, whether it's the limo arriving late to the ceremony or missing part of cocktail hour. This fear is especially ridiculous since there is going to be about 3 hours between the end of the ceremony and the start of cocktail hour, but I don't want to miss a single moment!

I'll just stop here before I totally freak myself out!
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Soon2BeMrsPy Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:12 AM+
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My biggest fear is how it all comes together. I just hope everything coordinates and goes and that what I am envisioning in my head isn't far off from what I will see the day of.

I am also afraid of continued family drama. Since I got engaged there has been nothing but drama with my MOH(my sister hates when the attention is off of her) and my father(not even walking me down the aisle and I don't know if he is even coming). Some people are just so selfish and egotistical its pathetic.
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Soon2BeMrsMango Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:16 AM+
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Posted by Soon2BeMrsPy

My biggest fear is how it all comes together. I just hope everything coordinates and goes and that what I am envisioning in my head isn't far off from what I will see the day of.

I am also afraid of continued family drama. Since I got engaged there has been nothing but drama with my MOH(my sister hates when the attention is off of her) and my father(not even walking me down the aisle and I don't know if he is even coming). Some people are just so selfish and egotistical its pathetic.



This is one of my biggest fears (not for the day of, but rather for the whole planning process) I am praying that everyone gets along & understands that this is Fh & I's wedding, we are paying, so they have no say! haha But seriously I want us to enjoy this time of our lives and I'm praying that no one's opinions get in the way of that. I can picture it happening with certain people, and I am praying it doesn't!
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nettybon Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:16 AM+
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Hmmmmmm... maybe that it rains and I wouldn't be able to have my wedding on the beach.
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bridejackson22 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:18 AM+
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wow good and scary question.

1)I have freaked out about not being able to pay for the whole thing and I really don't want to tear into envolopes the day of.
2)have pimples, not feel good, or my period.
(for anyone who has seen the movie dirty love I had a nightmare that I had gotten my period the day of my wedding and had the grocery store incident from that movie. Woke up in a sweat I was like please whatever happens just not that lol)
3) Rain no outdoor pictures frizzy hair, allergies/sinuses.
4) waking up late or being late
5) Not losing weight but gaining weight and being at my heaviest the day of my wedding and hating the way I look in pics.

On all that negative worst fear notes. I want to end it positive. I know I am going to lose weight, I have really great DOC so I won;t be late. Nature is a ***** but I hope she will be kind that day. Save as best as I can. And I get to marry my best friend so it's going to be the best day ever regardless :)
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Simonenarissa Posted: Jan 24, 2013 11:23 AM+
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1. Hurricane
2. Being too stressed (planning a wedding with lots of time s my attempt to not get stressed!)
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dglora85 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 01:22 PM+
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My biggest fear is that I end up working and coordinating things on our big day working when I am suppose to enjoy it, instead everything goes wrong and I end up being miserable the entire day.
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jdellorso Posted: Jan 24, 2013 01:35 PM+
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My biggest fears are:

1- something awful happening to one of my family members before the wedding (dramatic right? But it legit scares the crap out out me)

2- Snow

3- No one dancing
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cconaty94 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 01:44 PM+
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I have two big fears. 1- a drunken incident. I am getting together many different families from all walks of life and giving them an open bar. Not to mention FH's parents are divorced, so they dont necessarily get along. I am terrified.

2- Someone, particularly in FH's family, being unhappy or upset. They are from upstate ny and all over the country except for Long Island. I am a LI girl so I know what it is like at home and I love it, but I KNOW I will hear plenty about rude people, traffic, bad drivers, etc. My fear is these comments will be made about someone in my family. Oh well, maybe if I just prepare for it?
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Alyssa M Posted: Jan 24, 2013 02:07 PM+
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Re: ***QOTD 1/24****


Posted by LadyReeRee

My biggest fear is that I have a stomach virus, a pimple, or a blizzard!



Ugh! I have a blizzard fear too! I try not to think about it
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CortneyAndKevin Posted: Jan 24, 2013 03:22 PM+
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Hmmm. People not showing up to my church! I had to have a Friday to lower my summer price and I really want people to come to my church to see us get married!!

Also having an upset stomach! That isnt enjoyable :(
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brads girl Posted: Jan 24, 2013 03:37 PM+
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my biggest fear is if i have the stomach virus

also...RAIN, hopefully there will be no 'april showers' the day of my wedding

also i want no sloppy drunks! eww
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suzystar829 Posted: Jan 24, 2013 06:16 PM+
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Re: ***QOTD 1/24****


Posted by cj52514

Good morning ladies! Today's QOTD is for worriers like me.

What is your biggest fear about your wedding day?

Even though I still have a little less than a year and a half to go and didn't even send out STDs yet, I'm worried that I won't make my 150 minimum. I have a lot of OOT guests and family and I'm worried that not only will I not make the minimum, but I'm stressing that my reception will be practically empty! LOL (Told you I'm a worrier!)

I can already tell that I'm 100% going to be a mailbox stalker when I send out invitations!



My biggest fear is not meeting the minimum too! FI's family is all out of town (we are too right now) and I'm afraid people might not make the trip!
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