QOTD 1/2/09

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Posted by gina409

well its strange becuase i need to work on being more calmer..i can get heated really quickly and the sicilian inner biotch can erupt..im also wayyy to sensitive and can take everything to heart..he is the opposite..hes so clam and cool never gets upset so we do balance each other out but i need to show less emotion sometimes and he needs to say what he is feeling

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i can relate to the sicilian inner biotch...I get that from my mommy

i am perfect fh needs realize i am perfect

I need to work on my nagging...but on the other hand, FH needs to work on having more of a sense of urgency about things, not being lackadaisical and procrastinating on every last thing, and then I wouldn't have to nag him. He also needs to become a little more self sufficient and take care of his own affairs...he's used to mommy taking care of him, cooking for him, doing his laundry, putting his things away...and it's being transitioned over to me. Not that I don't want to care for him, but he needs to know how to make a sandwich for himself if he's hungry lol.

FH would say I need to work on my faith and religion as well as how I act in family party situations. I don't know, I can't change my personality...but it concerns him. I guess if I was brought up like him I would have concern too, but he's concerned about our children growing up confused. It's hard, I really feel like religion is the root cause of all the problems in the world, wars, conflicts, and on a much more personal level, it's something couples need to work on too.

Nothing has really changed since we've been engaged, but over time I have realized that I need to be able to admit when I am wrong. I have a terrible time doing this!

FH seriously needs to NOT tell me I have an attitude or I'm cranky so much! He is very sensitive and he takes things the wrong way a lot of times. Yes, I can be a beyotch, he has known this for years! I just want him to have a slightly tougher skin.

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Posted by JJC

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Posted by gina409

well its strange becuase i need to work on being more calmer..i can get heated really quickly and the sicilian inner biotch can erupt..im also wayyy to sensitive and can take everything to heart..he is the opposite..hes so clam and cool never gets upset so we do balance each other out but i need to show less emotion sometimes and he needs to say what he is feeling

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i can relate to the sicilian inner biotch...I get that from my mommy

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its a blessing and a curse at the same time right?