QOTD:10.11.11

Original post by gmcamp

Oct 11, 2011 10:48 AM

Today's QOTD has to do with our FHs..

Have you put FH in charge of anything for the wedding?

Nope! I think it would be impossible for me to relinquish control of any aspect of the wedding. That might sound horrible, but I'm very picky and also budget conscious, so I would be afraid of him doing something wrong or spending more money than we have to!

Edit: I think I may have been a little unclear with the wording of the question, but I meant to ask whether you've put FH in charge of something to do without your input. My FH is involved in each decision that we make, but I would not let him make wedding-related decisions without me.

mara1017 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 01:57 PM

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I have not really put him in charge of anything for the wedding but he has been helping me with making decisions, etc.

Peekaboo218 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 02:28 PM

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Not really. He thinks he's going to pick out the tuxes. I'll let him think that, until we actually go and pick them out together.

kaygrease Posted: Oct 11, 2011 02:41 PM

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Posted by FutureMrsGTL

Nope! if I put him in charge of something, it would never get done.

I do ask his opinion on everything I do and make sure he likes it too.

This!! I'm so glad I'm not alone. Why can't they do things that we ask!!?? lol

I should add that he loves coming to everything and went to every single RH with me...he even wanted to come dress shopping with me but I wouldn't let him. However, he just doesn't make the appointments.

roblisa09 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 03:51 PM

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FH is in charge of picking the song for our first dance but that's about it. We decided on everything together.

CaughtMyFish Posted: Oct 11, 2011 03:53 PM

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well, HE thinks he will be in charge of tux rental, but he wont be.

soon2beMrsHenry92912 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 04:03 PM

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Posted by CaughtMyFish

well, HE thinks he will be in charge of tux rental, but he wont be.

This!!! We have this argument all the time...he never wins

opheliadunn Posted: Oct 11, 2011 04:05 PM

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Honeymoon, that all he really cares about :)

soon2beMrsHenry92912 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 04:07 PM

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FH has been extremely helpful...we've done a lot of the decision making together. But he has such ADD that if I give him a task it never gets finished because he 'changes channels' (his words not mine, lol) so quickly. I gave him the task of researching a DJ, but that didn't work out so well. He just isn't wedding obsessed like me So, I do the research and then we make the decision together. Its worked out well so far

Alannah22 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 05:48 PM

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Nope! FH hasn't made any wedding decisions without me. I always include him in the discussion of what we should do, but he hasn't done anything without me!

jtbride2012 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 06:24 PM

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Nope...his job is the honeymoon

FutureMrsCat050412 Posted: Oct 11, 2011 07:31 PM

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Posted by CaughtMyFish

well, HE thinks he will be in charge of tux rental, but he wont be.

Blonde_Glitz Posted: Oct 11, 2011 08:06 PM

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I've given him limos, hotel blocks and tux's. I had to take back limos and I'm 5 days away from taking back hotel blocks. We'll see what happens with tux's.

linda_art Posted: Oct 11, 2011 08:17 PM

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We do everything together and love it that way.

Bride in 2012 Posted: Oct 12, 2011 07:08 PM

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Posted by gmcamp

Today's QOTD has to do with our FHs..

Have you put FH in charge of anything for the wedding?

Nope! I think it would be impossible for me to relinquish control of any aspect of the wedding. That might sound horrible, but I'm very picky and also budget conscious, so I would be afraid of him doing something wrong or spending more money than we have to!

Edit: I think I may have been a little unclear with the wording of the question, but I meant to ask whether you've put FH in charge of something to do without your input. My FH is involved in each decision that we make, but I would not let him make wedding-related decisions without me.

FH has made calls, appointments, etc. but only when I've asked him to do it. I feel like when it comes to wedding planning, men can't be entirely left alone to handle things lolol