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Original post by mybabylovesmoi

Mar 11, 2010 09:33 AM

B]What is your greatest fear about growing old together?

My biggest concern is our future kids. The world they'd be living in. My parents let me and my brother go to the store by ourselves, walk to school etc. since we were like 8. I'm not sure I feel okay letting our kids have that freedom. Just general craziness about kids having sex at like 11 etc. I want kids but I'm scared for them already!

A superficial worry for me is that I'm the first of my close group of friends to get married. They are all working on their careers and say they don't see themselves getting married for more than a few years...I'm afraid that marriage and kids will weigh on my body and I'll be the old, fat looking one of the bunch and my friends will still be super hot!

Oh! Also, I worry that FH will die way before I do. He doesn't have the best eating habits (bacon is his favorite food group) and I worry for him!

I guess I'm a huge worry wart!

How about you girls? Any worries?

Tromsugar2b Posted: Mar 11, 2010 09:27 PM

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yea i am really worried that one of us will get sick before we are old and leave the other one at an age where they'd probably get remarried!

FutureMrsDe Posted: Mar 11, 2010 09:45 PM

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MY biggest fear is him dying first. I cant live without him :(

Jessc4985 Posted: Mar 11, 2010 11:05 PM

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I would have to say the whole death thing. If he goes first I will never survive, but if I go first he said the same, and I would never want my love to feel that way. It is a catch 22... I want it to be like in 'The Notebook' when they pass away together!!!!

haitianbeautie Posted: Mar 11, 2010 11:06 PM

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Posted by Kuklitsa143

Posted by evita2781

I have a few - and one is the same as yours. With how the kids are going to end up. FH and I talk bout this all the time and he said that we just need to discipline and guide them. but sometimes, their friends can make them do a lot of horrible things. I'm glad that we grew up during the time that we did, but I'm concerned defintely for the future - esp seeing all these news about kids doing things at such a young age.

Another fear is not having enough $ to support ourselves and kids. I feel like i'm struggling now

and back to the kids - it is shallow of me, but I'm afraid of gaining weight and never able to lose it again once i have them

and finally i'm worried of being in one of those marriages where the passion dies - i really hope that's not the case. I love my FH and always will - i hope he feels the same bout me

DITTO ^^ everything and all

from my brain to your fingers!

SimHawk8 Posted: Mar 12, 2010 12:18 AM

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Posted by evita2781

I have a few - and one is the same as yours. With how the kids are going to end up. FH and I talk bout this all the time and he said that we just need to discipline and guide them. but sometimes, their friends can make them do a lot of horrible things. I'm glad that we grew up during the time that we did, but I'm concerned defintely for the future - esp seeing all these news about kids doing things at such a young age.

Another fear is not having enough $ to support ourselves and kids. I feel like i'm struggling now

and back to the kids - it is shallow of me, but I'm afraid of gaining weight and never able to lose it again once i have them

and finally i'm worried of being in one of those marriages where the passion dies - i really hope that's not the case. I love my FH and always will - i hope he feels the same bout me

ITA!!! I am really afraid of growing apart and not having enjoy money for our family.