FH and I were not going to get married in a church so no need for Precana... But I think we were should go to a class or 2.. We have problems with certain things and I think Precana will help teahc us how to work certain things out and what have you..
My question is.. What should I do?.. We act like a old couple already because of a few things ( Can't name just in case of peepers).. And I don't want to have these issues when we're married also??
BeachLovers
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What about just going to a marriage counselor? Just explain that your looking to solidify your relationship and iorn out a few wrinkles
MrsGarcia
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I can't find any..lol
Well any that aren't way expensive.
meara
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Posted by MrsGarcia
I can't find any..lol
Well any that aren't way expensive.
do you or FH have insurance - I was suprised to find at my last job that my insurance actually covered counseling - never went but I could have for just the co-pay I think (after a small min)
evewedsjc
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Do you guys go to any church at all....any pastor would be willing to give you classes or mentoring..
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i WOULD SAY GO TO YOUR LOCAL CHURCH & SPEAKWITH YOUR PREIST. EVEN THOUGH you rnot a memebr they usually will help you & give good advice where to go or maybe teh priest himself will help you with whatever problem you ar ehaving.
MrsGarcia
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I didn't even know they did that???
The only problem is... I'm a bit weary of doing that because a friend of the family's mother works at that church and I don't want her to find anything out. You know??
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the man who did our precana is a counselor and i have his info...he told us all at the classes to call if we ever wanted to have private sessions with him...fm me if you want the info. He was such a great guy...married almost 40 years...he has an office in his home and i DEFINITELY recommend him...especially being that he teaches pre-cana classes on the side!
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Posted by MrsGarcia
FH and I were not going to get married in a church so no need for Precana... But I think we were should go to a class or 2.. We have problems with certain things and I think Precana will help teahc us how to work certain things out and what have you..
My question is.. What should I do?.. We act like a old couple already because of a few things ( Can't name just in case of peepers).. And I don't want to have these issues when we're married also??
I know for Bklyn and Queens you can sign up for pre-cana online and you don't even have to be catholic. If you want the info for their site, FM me and I'll help you sign up for it, it costs $195 and it's given in Douglaston on a friday evening 7:30-9:30 and a Saturday 9-5 - you have to do both days consecutively.
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i would say to go to yopur church or a loca church and im sure someone can talk 2 u guys or maybe give u info on a class
MrsGarcia
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Thanks girls .... I really appreciate the info
ChrissyV729
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My FH's aunt runs Pre cana for her church. If you want I can ask her if you can join even though you are not getting married in a church.
