What is your worst fear that could happen and ruin your relationship/marrage with FH?
Future Mulligan
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i have a family member who has an addiction and totally stopped working and his wife supports him
if he stopped working for any reason ( i mean by choice of course ) that would be a deal breaker
men support their families, boys stay home and make up excuses
i think everything else i could work through - cheating, addiction - everything.
ohhh yeah - if FH became a bum and just stopped working that would be really bad....i couldnt stay with a loser like that......i think people like that are such losers - especially when they have families.....its one thing not to take care of yourself - but to not take care of your family - now thats a real low life to me
AS
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i dont know......my biggest fear is if one of us dies young - or dies when are kids are little.....its my biggest fear ever.....i worry about what he would do without me......and i worry that i wouldnt be able to survive without him.....its just a really scary thought for me and i try not to think about it......Thanks alot MPAS!!!
ohh yeah and cheating - because that is more of the kind of answer you are looking for.....i cant think of anything else that FH could do that would make me not want to be with him anymore.....he doesnt have any bad habits like drinking, drugs or gambling, he isnt abusive at all....so i guess if he cheated on me id be really upset and id feel very betrayed - it would be really tough to get over something like that.....
Awww you shouldnt think about that, yes it is scary and I have thought about it too
kellybean
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AS
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that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
Future Mulligan
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i dont know......my biggest fear is if one of us dies young - or dies when are kids are little.....its my biggest fear ever.....i worry about what he would do without me......and i worry that i wouldnt be able to survive without him.....its just a really scary thought for me and i try not to think about it......Thanks alot MPAS!!!
ohh yeah and cheating - because that is more of the kind of answer you are looking for.....i cant think of anything else that FH could do that would make me not want to be with him anymore.....he doesnt have any bad habits like drinking, drugs or gambling, he isnt abusive at all....so i guess if he cheated on me id be really upset and id feel very betrayed - it would be really tough to get over something like that.....
Awww you shouldnt think about that, yes it is scary and I have thought about it too
i think its bc i watch to many sad movies
AS
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Posted by kellybean
You didnt have to delete that. I would still love my FH and if that happens, its not his fault. I would love to adopt
lkdrnw
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I told him that if he ever cheated---he might want to hide all his $300 jerseys and autographs---and he has so much, if I sold it, I wouldn't have to worry about a mortgage So if he ever cheated, not only would I leave him, but I would take most of his things and destroy the rest But I trust him-lol
AS
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i dont know......my biggest fear is if one of us dies young - or dies when are kids are little.....its my biggest fear ever.....i worry about what he would do without me......and i worry that i wouldnt be able to survive without him.....its just a really scary thought for me and i try not to think about it......Thanks alot MPAS!!!
ohh yeah and cheating - because that is more of the kind of answer you are looking for.....i cant think of anything else that FH could do that would make me not want to be with him anymore.....he doesnt have any bad habits like drinking, drugs or gambling, he isnt abusive at all....so i guess if he cheated on me id be really upset and id feel very betrayed - it would be really tough to get over something like that.....
Awww you shouldnt think about that, yes it is scary and I have thought about it too
i think its bc i watch to many sad movies
ME TOO!!!! So many things go through my head
AS
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If my FH ever cheated, him and the girl he cheated with would both be dead and they will never find the bodies
ant n tilde
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i have a family member who has an addiction and totally stopped working and his wife supports him
if he stopped working for any reason ( i mean by choice of course ) that would be a deal breaker
men support their families, boys stay home and make up excuses
i think everything else i could work through - cheating, addiction - everything.
ohhh yeah - if FH became a bum and just stopped working that would be really bad....i couldnt stay with a loser like that......i think people like that are such losers - especially when they have families.....its one thing not to take care of yourself - but to not take care of your family - now thats a real low life to me
its disgusting to watch
snwb08
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I'd say complacency - like we are bored with each other and at the end of the day we just get in a routine and don't talk much to each other anymore, don't have sex, etc. that's my biggest fear and what i think ultimately leads to all other problems (like cheating).
thanks to a free weekend of movie channels fh got me watching that show on hbo tell me that you love me - it totally freaked me out b/c some of it seems so on the mark about relationships in general.
Espo22
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that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
AS
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Posted by Espo22
that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
Ohhhhhhhhhh opps
i see what your saying, thats kinda sad to hear, sorry
missliss
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Posted by Espo22
that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
I hear you loud and clear.
snwb08
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Posted by Espo22
that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
i know what you mean - that's kind of along the lines of what i was trying to say - like giving up in a sense... you articulated it better though
that one day i will stop fighting( and not fighting in the screaming, mad eachother way)
I start fights too. I have to stop. Im getting a little crazy with the wedd
NO lol that i will STOP fighting one day, and i dont mean arguing or anything like that. I mean the fact that i do have to fight for us alot bc of things that FH deals with and its something we have to deal with the rest of our lives. Fh battles everyday of his life and honestly its things that alot of people wouldn't want to deal with but i fight for our relationship everyday of our lives and sometimes i have to fight extra hard. I meant fighting in that sense...my fear is that one day i will just finally give up and stop fighting
I understand what you mean.
missliss
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Posted by snwb08
I'd say complacency - like we are bored with each other and at the end of the day we just get in a routine and don't talk much to each other anymore, don't have sex, etc. that's my biggest fear and what i think ultimately leads to all other problems (like cheating).
thanks to a free weekend of movie channels fh got me watching that show on hbo tell me that you love me - it totally freaked me out b/c some of it seems so on the mark about relationships in general.
I kind of agree with you about that show. I know it's TV and it's meant to be 'entertainment', but really, it's a scary show. I don't like watching it at all. I also agree with you about complacency.
AS
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Posted by snwb08
I'd say complacency - like we are bored with each other and at the end of the day we just get in a routine and don't talk much to each other anymore, don't have sex, etc. that's my biggest fear and what i think ultimately leads to all other problems (like cheating).
thanks to a free weekend of movie channels fh got me watching that show on hbo tell me that you love me - it totally freaked me out b/c some of it seems so on the mark about relationships in general.
I kind of agree with you about that show. I know it's TV and it's meant to be 'entertainment', but really, it's a scary show. I don't like watching it at all. I also agree with you about complacency.
I watch that too
AS
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Im also afraid of getting sick of each other when we get married. We have been together for 7 years and 7 months.
